90+ Unique And Fun Birthday Party Ideas For 13-Year-Olds

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The 13th birthday of your child is a special event. As this milestone marks your child’s transition from childhood to adolescence, make them feel special by trying some fun 13th birthday ideas that reflect your child’s personality and interests.

Planning a party for tweens or teens comes with its challenges. So, plan this birthday party by talking to your child and combining their ideas with the 13th birthday party ideas given here. Your child deserves only the best; thus, make this the best birthday bash of their life—one they would remember for years.

90+ Unique 13th Birthday Ideas

Celebrate your tween’s entry into teenagehood with these unique 13th birthday ideas. There are a variety of ideas you can use according to your teen’s interests.

Fun 13th Birthday Party Themes

Are you confused about your teenager’s birthday party theme? Be it indoors or outdoors, everything else will fall in place once you get the theme right.

1. Musical

Many leading apps allow your children to record songs and post them online. Your child’s 13th birthday party can be based on their favorite musical app. Design the cake and the invitation in the colors of the app’s logo. You can also hold a surprise singing competition or karaoke at the party.

2. Cooking

By the time a child turns 13, they may develop strong culinary likes and dislikes. They might not even like the foods you have planned for the party. To avoid such inconveniences, you can arrange a cooking-themed party. Just give various ingredients to the guests to prepare a simple meal for themselves or others too.

3. Color

This is a theme that never gets old. Whether you have a son or a daughter, they will enjoy this theme. Decide on a color code and ask the guests to get costumes in those colors. You can use decorations that complement this color code, and the cake can be made in those shades too.

4. Lucky 13

Whether or not you are superstitious, you can arrange a Lucky 13 birthday party for your 13-year-old. Ask the guests to bring in items they consider lucky – a horseshoe, a four-leaf clover, and so on. Then, print out some images of these items and decorate the room with them.

5. Glow-in-the-dark

If your child is fun-loving and mischievous, they will love this theme. You can even make the invitations using invisible UV ink markers. Then, decorate the room using glow sticks and include games the children can play in the dark.

6. DIY pizza

This is similar to the cooking theme and might get all pizza lovers excited. Give the guests a variety of pizza toppings (yes, including pineapple), keep the dough ready, and let everyone make their crazy toppings.

7. Backyard camping

For children who love camping trips, this will be a great 13^th birthday idea. Put up some tents in your backyard, and you are set. If you plan to participate in the party, you can light a bonfire to toast marshmallows and have a storytelling session.

8. Winter hiking

Let your child and their friends go on a little hiking trip. If your child enjoys hiking, they are bound to like this as well. Make sure you provide them with all the necessities for this outing.

9. Silent disco

If your teen is talkative, consider this theme and let them experience some calm moments (and you get a bit of peace too). You could hire a silent disco DJ for the occasion. If you are looking for an inexpensive option, give each child a pair of headphones they can use with their phones and dance to songs of their choice.

10. PJ Party

Let your teen have a relaxing birthday party by setting up a pajama party. They can get into their snuggest PJs and have pillow fights, watch their favorite show or movie while munching on their comfort foods. You can decorate it with sleeping bags, pillows, and blankets.

11. Superhero

If your child is a huge fan of the Avengers or Marvel superheroes, this theme can be great to engage and entertain them. Ask the guests to dress up in their favorite superhero costume and let them act out their best-loved scenes, build their own props, and get a superhero cake.

12. Space

Your child dreams of becoming an astronaut and traveling through space one day? Help their dream come true. You can make a DIY rocket and decorate the room with stars, planets, and different celestial objects. You can even pack their food just like astronauts do in space.

13. Super Spies

Host a spy-themed birthday party where everyone is dressed up in their stealthy costumes and spy accessories. You can even give everyone their spy code names to communicate with the entire party. Include games like writing each other invisible messages, decoding codes, or going on a mission to find the missing cake.

14. Circus

Hosting a circus-themed party can be an exciting and festive way to celebrate your teen’s birthday. Include a few magic shows and decorate with bright balloons, streamers, and bunting. You can even incorporate circus-themed foods like popcorn, cotton candy, corn dogs, funnel cake, and more.

15. Stargazing

What is a more unique way to celebrate a birthday than by stargazing? Instead of a normal slumber party, get your binoculars or telescope, along with some snacks, and explore the beautiful night sky.

13th Birthday Party Ideas For Boys

Here are some fun birthday party ideas for boys that may be ideal for your daughters too.

16. Drive-by parade

If your child cannot step out for their birthday or their friends cannot come over, you can arrange a drive-by birthday parade for them. Decorate the cars with streamers and balloons, put up silly banners, and announce your child’s birthday to the world.

17. Sports

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If your son is into sports, you have to look no further for a theme. Give your son and his friends some tickets to a live match, or switch on the TV for them to watch a live game over popcorn and soda. You can even plan the cake around the sport and, if possible, get an autographed cap or sports equipment from the player he worships.

18. Video games

Invite your son’s friends over, order some pizza, and let them play video games to their heart’s content. They could spend hours playing, so you may plan a sleepover as well.

19. Red rover

Make the children stand in two lines facing each other. The first team names a player of the opposite team. This player then leaves their teammates and rushes headlong into the first team to try and escape. If they succeed, they can rejoin their team. If they are caught, they become a part of the first team. The team that turns all the players into theirs is the winner.

Quick tip

A 13-year-old will get excited to celebrate their big day with their friends, and the party may last several hours. Don’t exert too much control over them, though you must keep a tab on them.

20. Laser tag

There are dedicated laser tag arenas that you can rent out for your son’s birthday. He and his friends can spend a happy time there, playing laser tag. You can keep the party private or public according to your preference and budget.

21. Bowling

Whether or not your boy is the most coordinated of people, he can still enjoy a bowling game with his friends on his 13^th birthday. Bowling is quite straightforward and extremely entertaining. Your son and his friends will enjoy every moment.

22. NERF party

Have a full blown-battle in your own home or backyard with Nerf guns. Make sure you clear out the area to avoid any breakable objects or furniture to have uninterrupted fun.

23. Trampoline park

Celebrate your teen’s birthday at a trampoline park that will make them jump for joy literally. You can even host a trampoline party in your own backyard if you have one. Plan a variety of activities that can be incorporated with the trampoline and have fun!

24. VR gaming

Video games are a boy’s best friend? Take it up a notch and host a VR gaming party that will be an immersive experience for everyone. You can select a few popular games and let the boys take turns experiencing virtual reality like never before.

25. Graffiti

Graffiti is not a crime if you’re not vandalizing public property. Clear out a space in your house or at the venue for your guests to express their artistic side and watch beautiful art unfold right in front of your eyes.

26. Water park

Beat the heat and host your teen’s birthday party at a water park. You can either book the entire park or just have fun on the slides and pools. Pack some snacks and juices for your guests to enjoy on a hot day.

27. Go-karting

Too young for a driver’s license? No worries, take your teen and his friends to a go-karting track and let them zoom around the track to show off their skills.

28. Outdoor movie night

Set up a projector in the backyard for an outdoor movie night, complete with cozy blankets and buttery popcorn. Ask your child for movie suggestions to ensure he and his friends celebrate the special day by watching their favorite movies.

13^th Birthday Party Ideas For Girls

Is your daughter over the moon about her 13^th birthday bash? Here are some exciting party ideas for 13-year-old girls to give them an impression of being grown up. You may use these ideas for your son’s party too.

29. Hotel night

If your daughter is planning to have a sleepover for her birthday, you might as well book a hotel and make it a lot more memorable. Your daughter and her friends can spend a night at a lovely hotel, preferably with a pool.

30. Spa

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A 13-year-old will be pleased with a spa-themed birthday party. Make some homemade scrubs and masks for the face, hair, and body and allow them to let loose.

31. High tea

While some teens like to have a blast, some might want to host a more elegant party. For example, a high tea party will allow them to celebrate their birthday in a simple and subtle manner. You may include dressing up and invitations, of course, but the celebrations can be muted.

32. Karaoke

Set up a karaoke bar for your daughter and her friends at your home. You could even hire a DJ for the birthday party. Add some dancing lights, a screen to display lyrics, and let everyone start grooving.

33. Unicorn

Even though your daughter has grown up now, she might secretly love unicorns. Appreciate her love for this mythical character and turn it into a real birthday party theme for her. Colorful streamers and balloons, a unicorn cake, and dresses may jazz up the event.

34. Rainbow

Rainbows signify true happiness. They are colorful and bring joy to whoever sees them. Bring these rainbows into your homes for your fairy girl. Making rainbow garlands and sun cutouts and streamers are a must for this theme. You can also use hair extensions to style your daughter’s hair in rainbow hues.

35. Pool party

If your teen enjoys dipping her toes in the water and relaxing by the pool. Gather her friends for a pool party at your house or at a public swimming pool. Make sure everyone has their sunscreens and floaties for a fun time in the sun.

36. Barbie

Your teen could be 13, but if she’s in love with pink, host her a Barbie-themed party. Ask the guests to dress up in their favorite Barbie outfit and take photos for a memorable day. In Barbie fashion, pick pink-colored decorations and food.

37. Beach party

If you live near a beach, take your girl and her friends out for a fun day at the beach. Organize activities and games like shell collecting, building sand castles, and beach volleyball.

38. Tie-dye

If your teen loves making her own clothing and enjoys DIY, try hosting a tie-dye party for her. Set up a work area where guests can tie-dye their shirts, hats, pants, or whatever piece of clothing. You can even include tie-dyed food items to match the theme.

39. Makeover

Most girls love experimenting with makeup and their sense of style. Have a makeover-themed party for your little fashionista and plan activities like a makeup tutorial, nail art session, or a hairstyling contest.

40. Museum visit

You can plan a visit to the museum for a unique birthday party celebration. There are different types of museums, so pick the one your teen would enjoy and learn from the most.

13th Birthday Party Decoration Ideas

You need the decorations and crafts to match your theme. Here are some ideas that you can use to decorate the space.

41. Balloons

Balloons need no introduction. They are a necessary part of every celebration, and your child’s 13^th birthday is no exception. The best part of using balloons is that they come in many colors, shapes, and sizes.

42. Streamers

As with balloons, a birthday party is unimaginable without streamers. They come in all colors of the rainbow and beyond, so you always have various options, regardless of the birthday party theme.

43. Black lights

These are a hit if you are planning to hold a glow-in-the-dark party. Black lights instantly bring a mysterious aura to the celebrations. You could also use black lights during scavenger hunts by sneaking in some invisible writing on a few surfaces.

44. Glow sticks

Although glow sticks are mostly used for glow-in-the-dark themes, you can also use them to decorate a regular birthday party venue too. When you put glow sticks inside the balloons, you give the room a muted, colorful glow. You can also use them for lighting during backyard camping.

45. Number balloons

If you are hosting a Lucky 13 party, it will be the best opportunity for you to display the number 13 on the walls using number balloons. You may use these balloons for other themes as well.

46. Photobooth

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A party for teenagers is incomplete without a photo booth. Set up a makeshift stall in the corner of your living room. Come up with exciting backdrops and props for the photos. You can hire a photographer for some good-quality pictures.

47. Selfie station

If your child and her guests have smartphones, you can set up a selfie station at the party. Use creative backdrops for this station, including patterned tablecloths, sequined dresses, and feather boas. You can also add fairy lights for an ethereal effect.

48. Pinata

People of all ages love pinatas. Your 13-year-old teen and their friends may enjoy hitting the pinata blindfolded. You can fill the pinata with your child’s favorite candies, toys, makeup, or play items. You could go for a pinata cake as well.

49. Donut bar

Tweens and teens are notorious for their eating habits and are usually perpetually hungry. So, a donut bar cannot go wrong at a 13^th birthday party. Give the guests a few topping choices and let them get creative with their donuts.

50. Mocktail bar

Create your very own signature mocktail with your child a few days before their birthday and set up a mocktail bar for the guests on the big day. Your child can hand out their signature mocktail to everyone present, and then a friend can take over to make custom mocktails for the guests.

51. Glitter balloons

Glitter balloons are even better than regular balloons. Your child can customize them as well. Put some glitter inside a balloon before inflating it. Once it is inflated, spread some glue on the balloon and roll it in a plate of glitter. The birthday night would look all starry and lit.

52. Giant balloon letters

Include these giant balloons to spell out your kid’s name and also wish them ‘Happy Birthday.’ They are eye-catching and will make your teen feel like they are the center of attention at their birthday party.

53. Confetti cannons

Confetti cannons are a must at every birthday party. You can use the confetti cannons at the end of the party or anytime during the party to celebrate a special moment, like after cutting the cake.

54. Paper lanterns

If you are planning to host a high tea party, then these paper lanterns are a great decor option to amp up the elegant vibe of the party. You can pick pastel colors for a more girly look or any color that matches your theme.

55. Gift table

Set up a table with a decorative covering to match the theme of your party. Place it at a central location so everyone can keep their gifts on the table. You could place balloons, streamers, flowers, or any decor of your choice.

56. Ice cream bar

An ice cream bar is a fun and tasty way for guests to cool off after some time on the dance floor. Include different flavors and toppings for the guests to choose and customize their own sundaes.

57. Flowers

Flowers are a beautiful and elegant way to decorate your party venue. They can be used as centerpieces, wall decorations, ceiling decorations, and even table runners.

Alilie, a mother from Cambodia, decided to make her son’s 13th birthday dinner extra special with flowers. She writes, “So, I tossed in pretty yellow chrysanthemum flowers in the vase, casually set the table using blue placemats and blue glasses (my son’s favorite color is blue), baked Almond chocolate cake, made a gorgeous and delicious charcuterie, cooked a three-course meal for a true ‘restaurant at home’ experience (i).”

58. Polaroid display

Polaroids are one way to cherish the memories of your child’s special day. Include a Polaroid camera with a blank wall so your teen and their friends can put up some Polaroids they have captured.

59. Emoji decorations

Emojis can speak a thousand words. Use emoji decors in the form of balloons, pillows, and photo props to add a whimsical touch to your party venue.

60. Themed props

You can include props and table settings that reflect the theme by choosing coordinating colors and themed tableware. This will help bring a cohesive and festive vibe to the party.

61. Time capsule

How about going to the future? Organize a time capsule where all the guests can write their blessings and well-wishes for your teen and let them open it 5 or 10 years from their 13th birthday.

Quick tip

When inviting your teen’s classmates to the party, 49% can be the magic number. If you invite the majority of the class, the people who were left out might feel bad. You may check with your child before sending out invitation cards.

62. Red carpet

If you are low on resources for the birthday party, this is an idea you can execute instantly. Put up a banner announcing your child’s birthday and roll out a red carpet. Click pictures of the ‘celebrities’ as they walk in. You can also set a formal dress code for the occasion.

13th Birthday Party Games

A birthday party will get more entertaining if you include some games in it. These party games for teenagers are fun and ensure no one gets bored during the party.

63. Scavenger hunt

Plan a scavenger hunt and allow the guests to decipher each code and hunt for the items themselves. You can divide them into teams to make the game exciting. You can ask them to either fetch particular items or goodies or do tasks and record them on their phones.

64. Foam twister

If you do not mind getting the guests and your house messy, you can arrange this game for your child and their guests. This is played the way regular Twister is played, but you add colored shaving cream to each circle. The result is a lot of laughs.

65. What’s on your phone?

This game is the teenage version of ‘What’s in your purse?’ It gives the other teenagers an idea about some useful or fun apps on everyone’s phones. Assign points for each app and award the teens with the highest points.

66. Pin the face on the emoji

Pin the tail on the donkey has been replaced by this game. Sounds fun? Children have to pin the eyes, nose, and mouth on an emoji face while blindfolded. This is a simple but fun game that everyone will enjoy.

67. Selfie hot potato

This game is played exactly like the hot potato game you played in your childhood, except that a smartphone is passed around the circle of players. Each player must take a selfie before tossing the phone to the next player. When the music stops, the player with the phone must post their selfie to the common group.

68. Donut on a string

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If you want some hilarious activity on your child’s 13^th birthday, this is the game you must include in the party. Tie donuts to strings and suspend them from a rod, a branch, or a clothesline at mouth level. The children have to try to eat the donuts with their hands tied behind their backs. Exciting, right?

69. Obstacle race

Adolescence brings a growth spurt and lots of energy to a child’s body. Help them siphon off the extra energy by participating in an obstacle race. The best part of an obstacle race is that it can be customized according to your budget, space, and resource availability. You can also try out the relay race.

70. Sleeping Beauty

This fun game provides entertainment to all the guests. A person can volunteer to become Sleeping Beauty. He or she will lie down with their eyes closed and try to be as still as possible while the other guests try to make them laugh.

71. Blindfold makeup artist

If you’re planning for a makeover party or just a slumber party, tie a blindfold around a person’s eye and let them do their magic. The results can be either impressive or hilarious.

72. Cookie face challenge

Games and food combined. In this game, everyone places a cookie on their forehead and the person who gets to eat the cookie first without using their hands wins. Be ready to see everyone’s silly faces and have a hearty laugh with this one.

73. Balloon stomp

Thinking of what to do with all the leftover balloons? Here’s a fun and competitive game. Everyone ties a string to a balloon around their ankle and all the guests will try to stomp on the other person’s balloon. The guest with the last remaining balloon wins.

74. What’s in the box?

Do you dare to put your hand inside the box? You will need a box with a cutout. Every volunteer will put their hand inside the box and try to guess the item placed in it based on the texture. You can use soft toys, jelly, ice, or anything that you wish. There will be some wild guesses, for sure.

75. Sock wrestling

Want to play a new game during your sleepovers? This game involves basic wrestling with a twist. The two people who are wrestling will try to take the other person’s sock off. The one who successfully does so wins. You can even include both socks to make it more competitive.

13th Birthday Party Food Ideas

Tweens and teens have fixed ideas about what to eat and what not to eat. Here are some fail-safe ideas you can use while planning the menu.

76. Pizza

Most children, even the fussiest of eaters, like to eat pizza. Including pizza slices or letting children make their own pizzas is one of the safest ways to ensure that the children eat amidst the birthday excitement.

77. Mini sandwiches

If you plan to host a high tea party, you can serve mini sandwiches to the guests. Mini sandwiches also make a great food choice for children because they tend to relish cutesy stuff.

78. Cupcakes

Cupcakes are usually a hit at any birthday party. They are easy to eat, and you can decorate them in any way you want. You could also set up a decorating station for the children to apply their choice of toppings and sprinkles to their cupcakes.

79. Protein bars

If you have planned a few energetic games for the party, you can include protein bars on your menu. They are easily available in stores, or you can make them yourself too. They serve as the perfect energy boosters for an evening of fun.

80. Chocolate coins

Chocolate is an eternal favorite among teens. You can include chocolate coins for different themes, including the Lucky 13 and unicorn ones. Children can gorge on the chocolates and then burn out the sugar rush with some games.

81. Pasta

Kids just love this dish for its juicy and lip-smacking. You can add it to the menu and decorate the dish with a cheesy layer or garnishing, to make it colorful, apart from flavorful.

82. Nachos

Include this crowd-favorite dish in your birthday party menu. It is an easy dish to make with lots of different toppings and melted cheese.

83. Macarons

These colorful and delectable treats are not only pretty to look at but delicious as well. Customize the macarons to your desired flavor and color to match your teen’s dream party.

84. Cake pops

These sweet finger foods are perfect if you are looking for mess-free treats. The best part is that they come in a variety of different flavors and are easy to make.

85. Popcorn

What is movie night without popcorn? You can even include a popcorn shack where the guests can ask for their preferred seasonings and mix-ins.

86. Fruit skewers

Snacks and treats can be nutritious along with delicious. Add a variety of fruits, especially seasonal, cut them into different cute shapes, and place them in a skewer for a healthy and refreshing snack.

87. Chicken nuggets

Chicken nuggets are always a hit with kids or teens. Serve chicken nuggets with different dipping sauces like barbeque sauce, ketchup, or honey mustard.

88. Mini burgers and fries

Mini burgers are a great way to avoid getting your hands messy. These bite-sized burgers are perfect for your guests to munch and mingle.

89. Brownies

Brownies are the perfect versatile dessert to munch on. You can cut it into different shapes and sizes and serve them with chocolate sauce, nuts, or sprinkles.

90. Pigs in a blanket

Pigs in a blanket or mini hotdogs are a great option to add to the party menu. You can add different dipping sauces like ketchup, ranch dressing, or mustard.

91. Marshmallows

Marshmallows are part and parcel of the camping experience. Indulge in some chocolate and graham crackers, if you’re planning a camping party for your teen’s birthday.

92. Chips and dips

Who doesn’t like chips? They come in different flavors and are a great option because everyone can find something they like. Add a variety of chips like potato, tortilla, or pretzels, along with some dipping sauces.

Infographic: How To Plan Your 13-year-old’s Birthday?

Your little boy or girl is a teenager now! It’s a big day for them for which they must have been planning for days ahead. So if you want to make this day memorable for them, here is a complete guide to help you through the planning and make it a grand success. Save it as a checklist and get started.

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