145 Bad Relationships Quotes That Help You Decide Right

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Sometimes we might fall for someone wrong. But learning from our mistakes is what life is all about. So instead of sticking to an unhealthy relationship, you can go through some inspiring bad relationship quotes to help you make the right decision.

If you happen to be or were in such a relationship, we have compiled a list of quotes about bad relationships to help you move on from an unworthy life. These will motivate you to choose happiness and freedom for a better tomorrow.

145 Bad Relationship Quotes

Read on the best meaningful quotes on bad relationships and move on.

1.  “It is far better to be alone, than to be in bad company.” – George Washington

2. “Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you have control over is yourself.” – Deborah Reber

3. “Sooner or later we’ve all got to let go of our past.” – Dan Brown

4. “The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships.” – Anthony Robbins

5. “No partner in a love relationship… should feel that he has to give up an essential part of himself to make it viable.” – May Sarton

6. “Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny.” – Steve Maraboli

7. “Maybe the most that you can expect from a relationship that goes bad is to come out of it with a few good songs.” – Marianne Faithfull

8. “If you’re giving your all and it’s not enough, you’re probably giving it to the wrong person.” – Unknown

9. “You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It won’t happen automatically. You will have to rise up and say, ‘I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am, I’m not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life.” – Joel Osteen

10. “Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you never got.” – Robert Brault

11. “Relationships end, but they don’t end your life.” – Steve Martin

12. “When you get into a bad relationship, the best thing you can do is get out of it as soon you can.” – Unknown

13. “Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?” – Mary Manin Morrissey

14. “You will evolve past certain people. Let yourself.” – Mandy Hale

15. “Nothing in the universe can stop you from letting go and starting over.” – Guy Finley

16. “I think it is a bad relationship when you get blamed for the things that make you who you are.” – Unknown

17. “Grudges are for those who insist that they are owed something; forgiveness, however, is for those who are substantial enough to move on.” – Criss Jami

18. “If you are struggling in a relationship to keep yourself happy, you are in a wrong place.” – Unknown

19. “I had to cease to mourn what could never be and make the most of what was possible. And I would begin doing that by trying to mend the hurts of the past.” – Cameron Dokey

20. “Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.” – William James

21. “Sometimes we just fall in love with the wrong people.” – Unknown

22. “You fell in love with my flowers but not my roots, so when Autumn arrived, you didn’t know what to do.” – Soft Grung

23. “For lack of an occasional expression of love, a relationship strong at the seams can wear thin in the middle.” – Robert Brault

24. “I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?” – Nicholas Sparks

25. “I am a strong believer that a bad relationship must be brought to an end, no matter how.” – Unknown

26. “It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you’ve known forever don’t see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.” – Nicholas Sparks

27. “When you get out of it, you realize how toxic it actually was.” – Steve Maraboli

28. “You don’t have to let that one thing be the thing that defines you.” – Jojo Moyes

29. “Even seasonal situations can bring with them lessons that last a lifetime. If the love doesn’t last, it prepares you for the one that will.” – Mandy Hale

30. “A relationship without trust is like a car without gas, you can stay in it all you want, but it won’t go anywhere.” – Unknown

31. “Sometimes it takes heartbreak to shake us awake and help us see we are worth so much more than we’re settling for.” – Mandy Hale

32. “Cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.” – Steve Maraboli

33. “Relationships end, but they don’t end your life. But people do often spend more time finding out about failed relationships than finding successful ones.” – Unknown

34. “Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.” – C. JoyBell C.

35. “It’s better to be healthy alone than sick with someone else” – Phil McGraw

36. “A bad relationship can do that, can make you doubt everything good you ever felt about yourself.” – Dionne Warwick

37. “That’s all you can do in this world, no matter how strong the current beats against you, or how heavy your burden, or how tragic your love story. You keep going.” – Robyn Schneider

38. “As I was fighting for you, I realized I was fighting to be lied to, fighting to be taken for granted, fighting to be disappointed, fighting to be hurt again..So I started fighting to let go.” – Unknown

39. “Sometimes trying to fix them, breaks you.” – Steve Maraboli

40. “Professionalism makes work relationships healthy, foolishness and dishonesty erodes them.” – Ty Howard

41. “There is no reason to believe that a bad relationship can be fixed. Sometimes you have to let go.” – Unknown

42. “The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.” – Ernest Hemingway

43. “There are only two kinds of people who can drain your energy: those you love, and those you fear. In both instances it is you who let them in. They did not force their way into your aura, or pry their way into your reality experience.” – Anthon St. Maarten

44. “It was strange, really. A couple months ago, I had thought I couldn’t live without him. Apparently I could.” – Gabrielle Zevin

45. “God said, you don’t have to worry about love. As long as I am existing, you will be loved.” – Unknown

46. “The most difficult aspect of moving on is accepting that the other person already did.” – Faraaz Kazi

47. “What’s broken is broken, and I’d rather remember it as it was than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived.” – Margaret Mitchell

48. “Make it a rule of life never to regret and never to look back. Regret is an appalling waste of energy; you can’t build on it; it’s only good for wallowing in.” – Katherine Mansfield

49. “If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.” – Shannon L. Alder

50. “It is important that we forgive ourselves for making mistakes. We need to learn from our errors and move on.” – Steve Maraboli

51. “And ever has it been known that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.” – Khalil Gibran

52. “One’s dignity may be assaulted, vandalized and cruelly mocked, but it can never be taken away unless it is surrendered.” – Michael J. Fox

53. “We are born in relationship, we are wounded in relationship, and we can be healed in relationship.” – Harville Hendrix

54. “Don’t go back to something God has already rescued you from.” – Unknown

55. “Sometimes you don’t get closure, you just move on.” – Karen Salmansohn

56. “Don’t hold on because you think there will be no one else. There will always be someone else. You’ve got to believe you are worth more than being repeatedly hurt by someone who doesn’t really care and believe that someone will see what you are really worth and treat you the way you should be treated.” – Unknown

57. “Sometimes we must undergo hardships, breakups, and narcissistic wounds, which shatter the flattering image that we had of ourselves, in order to discover two truths: that we are not who we thought we were; and that the loss of a cherished pleasure is not necessarily the loss of true happiness and well-being.” – Jean-Yves Leloup

58. “Relationships are supposed to make you feel good. Relationships are not supposed to make you feel bad.” – Laura Bowers

59. “I think a relationship is like a shark. It has to constantly move forward or it dies.” – Woody Allen

60. “I felt an inner peace and softness. My Berlin Wall had been cracked; the toxic relationship between me and that critical voice had been severed.” – Penny De Villiers

61. “If someone keeps bringing you down, perhaps it’s time to get up and leave.” – Karen Salmansohn

62. “A bad relationship can give you a lot of learnings.” – Unknown

63. “There are people who break you down by just being them. They need not do anything. Dissociate.” – Malebo Sephodi

64. “We are responsible for our own relationships, their success, their failures, the good times, the bad times. Take responsibility for creating the relationships that you desire.” – Sam Owen

65. “If you were in a bad relationship and you meet someone new, you’re going to leave with your luggage. The next person is going to have to endure things that someone else causes.” – Curtis Jackson

66. “Everybody has bad relationships and, at the end of the day, they are just a great way to set yourself up for a good relationship.” – Anne Hathaway

67. “Love sometimes hurts when you’re not with the right person But, don’t give up loving.” – Unknown

68. “Don’t force together, pieces that don’t fit.” – Unknown

69. “In a relationship, when does the art of compromise become compromising?” – Sarah Jessica Parker

70. “Relationships based on obligation lack dignity.” – Wayne Dyer

71. “Toxic relationships are like a good pasta that has been overcooked.” – Asa Don Brown

72. “Until you let go of all the toxic people in your life, you will never be able to grow into your fullest potential. Let them go so you can grow.” – DLQ

73. “Poisonous relationships can alter our perception. You can spend many years thinking you’re worthless. But you’re not worthless. You’re underappreciated.” – Steve Maraboli

74. “And perhaps there is a limit to the grieving that the human heart can do. As when one adds salt to a tumbler of water, there comes a point where simply no more will be absorbed.” – Sarah Waters

75. “Some people ask God for a “sign” and ignore God unless His answer is “yes.” Please trust God whether or not you get what you are praying for.” – Unknown

76. “To be bitter is to attribute intent and personality to the formless, infinite, unchanging and unchangeable void. We drift on a chartless, resistless sea. Let us sing when we can, and forget the rest…” – H.P. Lovecraft

77. “Learn to walk away from those who cause harm to you.” – Malika E Nura

78. “Love cannot live where there is no trust.” – Edith Hamilton

79. “Bad relationships are like a bad investment. No matter how much you put into it you’ll never get anything out of it. Find someone that’s worth investing in.” – Unknown

80. “When someone you love says goodbye you can stare long and hard at the door they closed and forget to see all the doors God has open in front of you.” – Shannon L. Alder

81. “When there is no trust at all between the two of you, then you do have a bad relationship then.” – Unknown

82. “The wrong person will give you less than what you’re worth but that doesn’t mean that you have to accept it.” – Sonya Parker

83. “A wrong relationship will make you feel more alone than when you were single” – Unknown

84. “Do you cry at the end of every day and hope for happiness to come tomorrow. Well, accept you are in a wrong relationship.” – Unknown

85. “Problems in relationships occur because each person is concentrating on what is missing in the other person.” – Wayne Dyer

86. “You create more space in your life when you turn your excess baggage to garbage.”- Chinonye J. Chidolue

87. “Toxic people attach themselves like cinder blocks tied to your ankles, and then invite you for a swim in their poisoned waters.” – John Mark Green

88. “Sometimes the hardest part isn’t letting go but rather learning to start over.” – Nicole Sobon

89. “The hardest part of being in an emotionally abusive relationship, it’s actually admitting you’re in one.” – Anna Akana

90. “Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart.” – Washington Irving

91. “It is better for someone to break your heart once by leaving your life, than for them to stay in your life and break your heart continually.” – Terry Mark

92. “How can I let you be a priority in my life, when I’m still an option in your life?” – Hussein Nishah

93. “We all have toxic people around us that make our lives miserable… The day we take them out of our lives, we will all become better people; including them…” – Rodolfo Peon

94. “Just say no to complicated, dead-end, unhealthy, and toxic relationships.” – Stephanie Lahart

95. “The death of one relationship always starts with small arguments and then suspicions.” – Unknown

96. “Don’t settle for a relationship that won’t let you be yourself.” – Oprah Winfrey

97. “Sometimes two people need to step apart and make a space between that each might see the other anew, in a glance across a room or silhouetted against the moon.” – Robert Brault

98. “Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts, and don’t put up with people that are reckless with yours.” – Kurt Vonnegut

99. “Your relationship should be a safe haven, not a battlefield. The world is hard enough already.” – Unknown

100. “Losing will not always amount to a loss, sometimes you have to lose those toxic relationships and bad habits to create a space for better things.” – Gift Gugu Mona

101. “You learn more about someone at the end of a relationship than at the beginning.” – Unknown

102. “Get away from a bad relationip. The sooner, the better!” – Unknown

103. “Forgiveness is a personal process that doesn’t depend on us having direct contact with the people who have hurt us.” – Sharon Salzberg

104. “I have to remember it is not love that has hurt me; but someone who could not love me in the right way.” – R. YS Perez

105. “When you let g,o you create space for something better.” – Unknown

106. “Manage your relationships. Great relationships may not be profitable, but bad ones always result in losses.” – Tarun Sharma

107. “It is really exhausting to live in a dictatorship of ‘Me’, which is basically a tyranny of others.” – Stefan Molyneux

108. “The one who loves the least, controls the relationship.” – Robert Anthony

109. “The creative process is lost in a toxic environment. The risk of staying is too great because in it you may never reach your full destiny.” – Germany Kent

110. “Don’t settle for anybody, just so you can have somebody.” – Unknown

111. “Sometimes it’s better to end something & try to start something new than imprison yourself in hoping for the impossible.” – Karen Salmansohn

112. “Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts, and don’t put up with people that are reckless with yours.” – Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.

113. “Sometimes dramatic people try to draw you into someone else’s drama, and that never ends well. Interfering is like pulling on a dangerous dog’s ears. Do it at your own peril.” – Mary E. DeMuth

114. “When people treat you like they don’t care, believe them.” – Unknown

115. “When being in a toxic relationship in life at times you may have to step outside yourself, to see yourself, so you can find yourself and love yourself again.” – Angel Moreira

116. “Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake & help us see we are worth so much more than we’re settling for.” – Mandy Hale

117. “It is better for someone to break your heart once by leaving your life than for them to stay in your life and break your heart continually.” – Unknown

118. “Losing excess fats through exercise is important, but losing useless friends is urgent. Treat urgent things first!” – Israelmore Ayivor

119. “You made me hate the person I was becoming—only because you wanted me to—and for that, you will never be forgiven.” – Ahmed Mostafa

120. “A heartbreak is a blessing from God. It’s just his way of letting you realize he saved you from the wrong one.” – Unknown

121. “A ‘situationship’ is not a relationship. Excuses about limitations and obstacles are just a lack of courage and commitment. Those who truly want to be together, find a way to make it happen.” – Anthon St. Maarten

122. “Spend your time with those who love you unconditionally, not with those who only love you under certain conditions.” – Suzy Kassem

123. “A bad relationship is like standing on broken glass, if you stay you will keep hurting…If you walk away, you will hurt but eventually you will heal.” – Autumn Kohler

124. “The wrong person isn’t breaking their back to make you happy. So, stop breaking your back for them.” – Sonya Parker

125. “Any relationship primarily built on physical attractiveness is predestined to be short lived.” – Zig Ziglar

126. “Almost all of our relationships begin and most of them continue as forms of mutual exploitation, a mental or physical barter, to be terminated when one or both parties run out of goods.” – Wiston Auden

Bad Relationship Quotes For Him

Why compromise when you can have the best in life. Let go of the past, which is weighing you down.

127. “Afterward, she would finally come to understand what it meant to be human, what it felt like when the wrong man loves a woman, how the touch of a hand on her back–placed at the exact spot where the shoulder blades end and before the spine begins–can feel like the way that wings beat in the darkest part of the night.” – Shilo Niziolek

128. “If you think that she is reckless with your heart, you should definitely leave her, I tell you now.” – Unknown

129. “Her pretty picture lying on the ground was like the toppling of some fascist regime. And burning the photograph was the celebration.” – Phil Volatile

130. “Whoever said money can’t buy happiness, clearly never paid for a divorce.” – Unknown

131. “I wish I knew how to quit you!” – Jack Twist

132. “Boy, if you think she is cheating on you, then you do not trust her enough, start thinking again.” – Unknown

133. “It is when your spouse is concentrating on things you are missing that hurts you the most.” – Unknown

134. “You can keep your love, I will keep my respect”- Amit Kalantri

135. “My girlfriend said she wanted me to be more like her ex; so I dumped her.” – Unknown

Bad Relationship Quotes For Her

Be strong, gather your emotional strength, and look up for a better tomorrow. Realize your worth and move on in life.

136. “Girls you’ve got to know, when it’s time to turn the pages.” – Tori Amos

137. “Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.” – Shannon L. Alder

138. “A bad relationship is a poison to the body, it will slowly kill you right from the inside out, girl.” – Unknown

139. “Sometimes a girl keeps going back to a guy who treats her bad, because she’s not ready to give up hope that maybe someday he’ll change.” – Unknown

140. “The man God created for you will treat you right. If the man you’re holding onto is treating you wrong, he isn’t in God’s plan for you.” – Unknown

141. “How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.” – Oscar Wilde

142. “Ladies, hear this, if a man isn’t following God, he isn’t fit to lead…If he doesn’t have a relationship with God, he won’t know how to have a relationship with you..If he doesn’t know God, he doesn’t know real love.” – Unknown

143. “Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted makeup.” – Marian Keyes

144. “It’s a guide to help women get out of bad relationships. It’s called, ‘You’re a Great Guy, BUT…” – Betsy Thomas

145. “When you do not have trust between the two of you, what you have will never get to last, girl.” – Unknown

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