Comfort Nursing: Meaning, Benefits And Tips To Stop It

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Comfort nursing for babies is a term for the practice of breastfeeding for reasons other than satisfying the baby’s hunger or thirst. While the primary purpose of breastfeeding is to provide nourishment to an infant, some babies suckle to self-soothe. It is called “comfort-nursing” because it calms the baby down.

A mother may comfort nurse to soothe an upset baby or calm them down when they are cranky or unwell. Comfort nursing provides the same benefits as those from skin-to-skin contact during nursing. Read the post to know more about the benefits and techniques of comfort nursing for babies.

Is It Normal For Babies To Feed For Comfort?

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Yes, it is normal for infants and toddlers to breastfeed for comfort. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, nursing provides closeness to the mother. This maternal physical and emotional connection provides psychological benefits, leading to mental calmness in babies (1). It is why babies may mostly seek comfort nursing in stressful situations, such as when experiencing pain, illness, or fear.

How To Tell If A Baby Is Comfort Nursing?

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Babies usually seek comfort nursing at timings beyond their usual breastfeeding sessions. Your baby is likely to reach out for comfort nursing right after a stressful situation, such as after an accidental fall, when scared by something, or when experiencing symptoms of an illness. They may also demand comfort nursing before bedtime or naptime.

During comfort nursing, the baby is less likely to suck strongly. It is also common to see the baby fall asleep while breastfeeding while comfort nursing. A comfort-nursing baby’s latch could also be removed easily. Therefore, the quantity of milk ingested during comfort nursing is very little to provide any nourishment.

Do remember

Comfort nursing is similar to snack time, where your baby does not have a full meal but a short snack to feel better after experiencing discomfort.

Are Flutter Sucking And Comfort Sucking Similar?

Flutter sucking is defined as non-nutritive sucking, where the baby is suckling at the breast but not for nourishment (2). A baby may have a weak sucking action or poor latchⁱThe way a baby adheres to the nipple of the mother while breastfeeding while flutter sucking. Therefore, comfort sucking is a type of flutter sucking, although it is not the only type of flutter sucking.

There could be several other reasons for flutter sucking, such as low milk supply, poor let-down reflex, or infantile orofacial problemsⁱRefers to problems with the mouth and the face in infants . Some babies may also flutter suck when approaching the end of an infant feeding session.

A baby who requires comfort nursing may do so without interference to their breastfeeding sessions since comfort nursing occurs beyond breastfeeding to satisfy hunger. However, some infants may display flutter sucking even during regular breastfeeding sessions, causing nutrition issues. If your baby tends to show flutter sucking often, speak to a pediatrician or a certified lactation consultant.

What Are The Benefits Of Comfort Nursing For Babies?

The breastfeeding benefits of comfort nursing are often psychological because it is breastfeeding for reasons beyond feeding. Also, many benefits could be attributed to skin-to-skin contact.

Comfort nursing may provide the following benefits to the baby.

1. Boosts overall infant development: Skin-to-skin contact while comfort nursing could benefit baby’s mental and physical health (3). It may reduce crying, improve body temperature maintenance, stabilize heart rate and breathing, and benefit immunity.

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2. Enables better infant sleep: A cranky baby could find it easier to fall asleep after comfort nursing. Adequate sleep is essential for an infant’s health and growth.

3. Reduces stress hormones: Skin-to-skin contact with the mother could reduce the baby’s cortisol, the stress hormone (4). It could be particularly helpful in cases when the baby desires comfort nursing due to fear or anxiety.

4. Helps in parent-baby bonding: Experts state that infants grow and learn better when they have an emotional attachment with their parents (1). Comfort nursing could provide the mother and baby an opportunity to bond, playing a significant role in parenting and newborn care and enriching your motherhood journey.

Besides these benefits, comfort nursing could improve the mother’s let-down reflex due to the baby’s sucking (5). The sucking action stimulates maternal prolactinⁱA hormone produced by the pituitary gland which causes the breasts to grow, develop and produce milk and oxytocinⁱA natural hormone that manages male and female reproductive systems, sexual arousal, childbirth, lactation, and human behavior hormones, leading to better milk supply and let-down.

Can Comfort Nursing Be A Problem?

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There is no evidence that comfort nursing could lead to problems. Many mothers fear that their baby may become clingier or require frequent comfort nursing to fall asleep. However, experts state that babies who indulge in comfort nursing could be no different in terms of clinginess than other infants.

According to UNICEF, each baby is different, and some babies could be clingy irrespective of whether they are nursed or not (6). Many experts consider it a myth that breastfed babies tend to be clingier since they need nursing to comfort themselves (7). Therefore, you may continue comfort nursing on demand without being concerned about possible problems.

Point to consider

Comfort nursing is not a new or unnatural practice. Instead of using a pacifier or allowing kids to suck on their thumb, mothers prefer breastfeeding to make the baby feel safe and sleep better.

How To Stop Baby From Comfort Nursing?

There is no need to stop comfort nursing if your baby is feeding adequately, growing healthily, and shows no sign of developmental regression. As the baby grows older, they are likely to discover other ways to self-soothe. Most babies stop comfort nursing by themselves as they approach toddlerhood.

You may consider stopping comfort nursing if the baby:

• Comfort-feeds instead of feeding during a regular breastfeeding session
• Prefers comfort nursing over breastfeeding
• Displays poor growth
• Seems to show more flutter sucking than breastfeeding
• Has problems with latching
• Does not seem to achieve developmental milestones or displays a regression

Several underlying factors or problems could lead to these scenarios. Note any other signs in the baby and consult a pediatrician. You may discuss with the doctor if you may continue comfort nursing.

Comfort Nursing For Soothing

Choose a one-piece pacifier that you may offer the baby during bedtime, naptime, and whenever they appear fussy as comfort measures. Offer a pacifier only after breastfeeding is established, which is after the baby is four weeks old. A pacifier could help the baby dissociate comfort nursing with sleep, nurturing, and self-soothing. Most children stop using a pacifier between the ages of two and four years.

Infographic title: Sucking Patterns In Babies

Since comfort nursing is not done to satisfy hunger, mothers should pay close attention to their babies’ regular breastfeeding sessions to ensure they are getting enough nutrition. A full-term baby displays a definite sucking pattern that moves through three stages. This infographic will let you know about them.

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