What's The Difference Between Dissolution Of Marriage & Divorce

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The ordeal of the termination of a relationship is never easy, but it should not necessarily have to be with a conflict or argument. Dissolution of marriage can be your option to break up on mutual terms with the legal proceedings and protocols. The process is an official settlement for ending a marriage so that both parties can split and part ways peacefully. If you are in that part of your life where you seek support for ending your marriage, this post can help you with the common procedure that needs to be followed for the disintegration of marriage in the US.

What Is Dissolution Of Marriage?

Dissolution of marriage is the legal procedure to end a marriage or parting officially. In dissolution, both the parties come to a mutual agreement on the division of marital property, spousal support, parental rights, and child support. So, there is no space for accusations, disengagement, and counter-accusations.

You can file for the dissolution of marriage on the grounds that fall within the legal framework of the state legislature.

Is The Dissolution of marriage different from divorce?

They are used synonymously. Both dissolution and divorce are the legal ways to end a marriage and are used interchangeably. However, in a dissolution of marriage, both the parties come to a mutual agreement regarding the distribution of property, child custody, alimony, etc., and the court passes the decree without any further trials. In some cases the marriage is long over between couples before they legally dissolve it. This happens when a couple gets emotionally detached from each other. Blogger Anne DaShiell says, “When I went through a divorce in 2002, my husband had emotionally dissolved our marriage long before he mentioned anything to me. We each spoke to our officiant over the phone; his advice to me was to let my marriage go — there was no hope for recovery because my husband’s heart was hard, his mind was clouded, and his ears were closed. Two months earlier, I had pointed out that our marriage needed help; however, he felt no desire to do anything to seek help for us (i).” On the other hand, divorce happens when the parties have a disagreement and decide to fight it out in court for disunion. The court intervenes and settles the disputes and disunity in a series of trials.

What Are The Grounds For Dissolution Of Marriage?

In the US, each state has its own set of grounds. The below flowchart covers the most common grounds for dissolution of marriage, followed by a detailed explanation:

* They are not the grounds but the type of marriage that the couple might have entered.

1. Grounds for no-fault dissolution of marriage

In this type, both the partners file a petition of mutual agreement to separate without the need to prove the fault of their spouse. The most common ground in the case of no-fault dissolution is “irreparable breakdown of marriage” or “irreconcilable differences”.

After both partners have agreed and signed the petition for this type of disaffiliation, they cannot object to the other party’s plea for dissolution. In this type of dissolution, the couple needs to stay apart for a certain period of time before filing the petition.

In the US, a few states accept only the no-fault grounds. Next, we will tell you about the various aspects of such a dissolution of a relationship.

I. The true no-fault states: 17 US states grant the dissolution on the no-fault grounds only. This means the divorce is granted on the basis of “irreconcilable differences” between the couple. The court does not allow casting faults as a ground for the dissolution of marriage. However, if there are faults, they could be considered as a factor at the time of granting child custody, dividing the property, providing alimony, etc.

The true no-fault states are Wisconsin, Kentucky, Washington, Oregon, Nevada, Nebraska, Montana, Missouri, Minnesota, Michigan, Kansas, Iowa, Indiana, Hawaii, Florida, Colorado, and California.

The below table covers the basic features of a true no-fault dissolution in each state:

State	Residency requirement	Property division	Do-it-yourself dissolution
Oregon (1)	Six months or 180 days before filing for dissolution	Equitable division: The property (acquired separately and together by the couple) will be divided between both the parties as per their       agreement. In the absence of an agreement, the court shall serve as per its discretion, which may or may not be an equal distribution.	Yes
Nevada (2) (3)	At least six weeks	Community property: Any income or property earned by the couple during their marriage is community property and is divided equally.	Yes
Nebraska (4) (5)	One year	Equitable division	Yes
Montana (6) (7) (8)	90 days	Equitable division	Yes
Minnesota (9)	Six months or 180 days	Equitable division
Hawaii (10) (11)	Six months	Equitable division	Yes
Colorado (12) (13)	3 months or 90 days	Equitable division	Yes
Wisconsin (14) (15)	30 days	Community property division	Yes
Kentucky (16)	180 days	Equitable distribution	Yes
Washington (17)	90 days	Community property distribution	Yes
Missouri (18)	90 days	Equitable distribution	Yes
Michigan (19)	1 year	Equitable distribution	Yes
Iowa (20) (21)	1 year	Equitable distribution	Yes

Child custody and support in the true no-fault states:

The court usually looks for joint custody. Where that is not possible, it will consider factors such as emotional ties, interest, desirability, and absence of abusive behavior while deciding the custody. The individual income levels are also a deciding factor.

II. Exceptions among the true no-fault states

A few states among the true no-fault states accept “incurable insanity” as a ground for dissolution of the partnership, along with “irreconcilable differences”. If the spouse is insane and mentally incompetent for some time, and the doctors have confirmed that there is no chance of recovery, or if the partner fails to perform marital duties, then the court will accept the dissolution of marriage. Those states include:

State	Residency requirement	Property division	Do it yourself dissolution
California (22)	6 months	Community property distribution	Yes
Florida (23)	6 months	Equitable distribution	Yes
Kansas (24)	60 days	Equitable distribution	Yes
Indiana (25)	6 months	Equitable distribution	Yes
North Carolina (26)	6 months	Equitable distribution	Yes

Process For Dissolution Of Marriage Under No-Fault Grounds

1. Both the partners must come to a mutual agreement that they are intending to dissolve the marriage due to irrevocable differences.

2. Each state in the US has specific requirements when it comes to the residency, property settlements and child support, check what is applicable to you.

3. Come to a mutual agreement on all the aspects of the dissolution, such as the distribution of marital property, child support and custody, and alimony.

4. The official divorce forms can be obtained from the court clerk, online or from your local library.

5. Fill in the forms and submit them, along with the necessary proofs, at the court clerk’s office. You may have to pay a filing fee.

6. The spouse must be notified, and a proof of that must be attached.

7. Unless there are any objections or obstacles, there will be one hearing, and the judge will ask for any additional information needed.

8. After the waiting period, the judge will sign a certificate officially dissolving the marriage.

2. Grounds For Fault Dissolution Of Marriage

In this type, there is no agreement between the couple. One of the partners initiates the divorce by stating one or multiple grounds for the dissolution and dissociation. In such cases, the court will tell the defendant to counter.

The marriage cannot be dissolved and is now termed as a divorce, wherein both the parties have to hire lawyers and proceed to trial until the court grants divorce as well as decides on the property distribution and child custody rights. Fault dissolutions do not require the partners to live apart for a specific period of time.

The usual grounds for a fault dissolution of marriage are:

• Adultery

• Voluntary abandonment for a certain period of time

• When one of the partners is facing life imprisonment in any state for a period of more than one year and has a minimum sentence of seven years

• The commission of a crime against nature or a beast either before or during the marriage

• Getting into addictions such as alcohol, narcotics, etc., after marriage

• Confinement of the partner to an asylum and is declared incurable at the time of filing the petition.

• If the wife gets pregnant during their marriage without the husband’s knowledge

• In the case of violent, cruel and inhuman treatment

The rest of the states except the true no-fault states accept both fault and no-fault grounds for dissolution of marriage. However, as mentioned in the previous section, the five states from the no-fault category accept only insanity as the ground.

Covenant and non-covenant marriages

In states like Arizona, Louisiana, and Arkansas there is an option to choose from the covenant and non-covenant marriages. The main differences between these two are:

• In a covenant marriage, the couple needs to seek pre-marital counseling as well as counseling before filing for dissolution.

• The grounds for filing dissolution in a covenant marriage are fewer when compared to non-covenant marriage.

• Irrevocable differences is not an adequate reason for seeking the dissolution of a covenant marriage.

• The couple has to stay apart for two years prior to the filing of dissolution and one year apart after the decree of legal separation.

Process For Dissolution Of Marriage Under Fault Grounds

In this type of disjoining and disbandment, the partner chooses to cast a fault, such as adultery, abandonment, a felony, imprisonment, etc., on the other partner for the failure of the marriage.

1. Both parties need to hire legal help to represent them in court.

2. As per the reason quoted for the dissolution of marriage, the judge might ask for additional proofs to substantiate the accusations.

3. The defendant spouse is notified through a legal notice, and they need to attend the court hearings.

4. There would be multiple hearings until the court is convinced that the fault stated for the dissolution is true.

5. The division of assets, alimony and child custody will be decided by the court.

Do You Need A Lawyer For Dissolution Of Marriage?

Not necessary. You can proceed with a do-it-yourself dissolution of marriage if your case meets the following criteria.

• Both the parties have opted for a no-fault ground for the dissolution.

• Both you and your partner have come to a mutual agreement about the assets division, child custody, spousal support, etc.

• Your marriage is a non-covenant marriage.

• You have adequate information about your family’s assets and debts.

• You have the time and patience to acquire all the papers, fill the forms and file them.

• You have hired a professional mediator to deal with one or two minor issues that are blocking the dissolution.

You may hire a lawyer if your divorce is based on any of the fault grounds as you need someone to represent you in the court to prove your allegations. Also, consider hiring a lawyer if you are emotionally unstable or not sure of the procedure.

What Is A Certificate Of Dissolution Of Marriage?

It is an official court decree or order that states a particular marriage is no longer valid. In many states, the court signs an official order for dissolution of marriage. It contains the details of marital property distribution and the date of dissolution.

This certificate is needed for various post-divorce activities such as updating insurance policies, changing bank account names, etc.

How Long Will It Take To Get a Dissolution decree?

It might take six weeks to 12 months in the case of a no-fault or uncontested dissolution of marriage and nine months to one year in the case of a faults or contested dissolution of marriage.

Various factors can influence the time taken to get the final order. Some of them are:

• The nature of the dissolution — whether it is contested or uncontested and covenant or non-covenant.

• The value of the assets that need to be distributed between the parties.

• If the state has some legal separation or waiting period before and after the divorce.

• If there is any prenuptial agreement in place.

• The waiting period the judge legally takes to sign the legal decree.

Irrespective of the nature of dissolution, mutual cooperation, and readiness to clear all the legal requirements by both the parties can help in speeding up the process.

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