55 Best Date Ideas For Teens To Spend Happy Time Together

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Dating in your teenage years is quite an experience. You’re filled with excitement and nerves about meeting someone new and spending time together. It is a crucial time since you are making new friends and are also attracted to potential love interests. Even research shows that romantic relationships can impact friendship dynamics, making it important to balance both romantic and platonic connections during this time (1). So, make the most of this wonderful time. And if you’re planning a date, we’ve compiled some cool and free date ideas for teens to help you make the most of it. Teens seldom get an opportunity to go out with someone they like due to family restraints and strict school schedules. Nevertheless, there are many dating ideas that you can actually try out with the person you are attracted to. Read on to find out.

55 Teen Date Ideas

Teenage dating can be an exciting experience as young people navigate relationships and learn what connecting with people at a deeper level means. 

According to the US Office of Population Affairs, “Healthy dating during the teenage years can be an important way to develop social skills, learn about other people, and grow emotionally. These relationships also can support adolescents’ ability to develop positive relationships in other areas, including in school, with employers, and with partners during adulthood (2).” Hence, having a good dating experience can be beneficial for a teenager. 

Understanding this, we bring you some interesting dating ideas that will make your special day memorable.

First Date Ideas For Teenagers

Are you going on a first date? You must be nervous. But don’t let it show. Instead, show your crush how special you can make a date.

1. Try a coffee date

A simple coffee date is ideal for a first date as it is cool and comfortable. And when you run out of topics to talk on, you can nibble on your food or sip your coffee.

Tip: Maintaining a smooth conversation on a coffee date can be tricky. So, prepare a few topics in advance, like favorite coffee, hobbies, or travel experiences. General questions like, “What’s your favorite travel destination?” can help if there’s an awkward silence.

2. Have fun at a gaming arcade

Pick a gaming arcade where you can have a fun time with your date without talking too much.

Tip: If your date is shy or unfamiliar with gaming, be supportive and encouraging. You can also opt for games that do not require much experience, so both of you can have fun without feeling pressured.

3. Game night at your place

If you feel uncomfortable about being spotted on a date, then plan a game date at home. Play your favorite games with your perfect date.

Tip: Balancing competition with fun on a game date at home can be challenging. Ensure your space is comfortable and distraction-free. Plan games that both of you enjoy and can play without frustration. Keep a backup game or activity ready if the first one does not go well. 

Did you know?

A game night allows you a more personal insight into your date’s preferences and personality. For example, you get to understand their favorite game, memories associated with it, game time snack or beverage, aspects of their character (such as competitiveness, emotionality, conscientiousness, etc.), and their ideal self based on their gamer persona.

4. Visit the museum

This one is strictly for a date who really enjoys observing different types of artifacts. Go together to a museum of their interest.

Tip: Some museums can be overwhelming if there are large crowds. To overcome this, choose a particular exhibit you both find interesting. You can even create a mini scavenger hunt by finding specific items or facts to discuss.

5. Take them to a concert

One of the easiest ways to ask someone out on a date is by offering them tickets to the concert of their favorite artist.

Tip: Choose this date only when you do not have much to talk about because concerts can get crowded and loud. Enjoy the music and share your thoughts during quieter moments or after the show. This shared experience can give you enough topics to discuss after the concert.

6. Go to an aquarium

Observing fascinating fishes in a dark space with your date can be interesting. Try it.

Tip: Some aquariums can be crowded, so pick an aquarium for your date only when it’s less crowded, like early in the day or on weekdays.

7. Enjoy at the amusement park

If you and your date are thrill-seekers, then the amusement park is perfect for your first date. When tired of rides, go for games at the park.

Tip: If thrill rides scare you or your date, opt for fun activities like games or food stands. Plan to take breaks in between rides to relax and chat. Long lines and wait times for rides can test your patience. So, plan your date on a less crowded day or opt for the fast-pass option.

8. Try fishing together

This is one of the most fun activities for teens of various ages. Get two comfy chairs and spend hours talking to each other while also trying to catch fish in a pond or river nearby.

Tip: Fishing may look easy but it can truly test your patience. To ensure your fishing date goes smoothly, watch fishing videos for some easy tips and tricks that you can use during your date. You can also play some light music to create a fun atmosphere.

9. Explore a new place together

Visiting a new place and trying a new cuisine for a first date will make it memorable for both you and your crush.

Tip: Going to a new place or trying a new cuisine can be stressful, mainly if you are worried about making a good impression. So, do thorough research on the place you plan to visit. Read about the cuisine and its cultural significance to feel more confident.

10. Go for a drive-in movie

If you own a license, then take your date to a drive-in movie. Ensure the movie is likable and not sad or scary.

Tip: Watching a movie without anything to munch on can be boring. Remember to carry some snacks and drinks that will make the experience more enjoyable.

11. Try kart racing

Ignite your competitive spirit by challenging your date to kart racing. Find a great place for go-karting and have a memorable experience.

Tip: If you and your date are new to karting, it is best to take it easy on the first few tries. Once you and your date learn the basics and gain confidence, you may try a fun challenge.

12. Play with water guns

Playing with water guns is fun, exciting, and highly enjoyable.

Tip: Remember to keep some dry towels and a change of clothes ready in case things get more messy than expected.

Fun Date Ideas For Teenage Couple

First dates are special and should be memorable. But amidst your butterflies and jitters, you may end up with the same old date plans.

Talking about a similar situation, Kristen Duke, mother of two, shares about her teenage son’s date nights, “I’ve suggested various activities they could do, but they tend to do the same movie night. Even though they don’t end up really watching a movie, but talking the entire time (i).”

Although talking is a good way to connect and get to know each other, you should ensure your crush agrees to go out with you and make them a date offer they cannot refuse. Let’s have a look at fun ideas you can choose from.

13. Visit the mall

Clichéd? Yes! Boring? No! Hang out at the mall playing games, eating junk food, and doing other fun things.

Tip: Malls can be packed over the weekend, so visiting during off-peak hours is better for a more relaxed experience. Caricature stalls and photo booths are great options at the mall for having a fun time together.

14. Plan a neighborhood scavenger hunt

Add excitement to your day by organizing a scavenger hunt around your neighborhood or favorite places.

Tip: Avoid a scavenger hunt during the rains, as you would not want sudden downpours to dampen your date plans.

15. Go bowling

Bowling is one of the classic date ideas because it is tried, tested, and approved by former teens.

Tip: Call ahead and book a lane in advance, especially if you plan to go on the weekend. If your date is not good at bowling, do not mock them for it; instead, try to help them with it.

16. Try ice-skating

The ice rink is where you are most likely to hold hands with a date. Either wait for them to slip or act wobbly on your skates.

Tip: Try to visit during non-peak hours to avoid crowded rinks where it’s harder to skate freely.

17. Go kayaking

Kayaking is a lot of fun and something different for a date. Remember to eat well because kayaking is tiring.

Tip: Pick a beautiful river, lake, or coastal spot for beautiful views. Wear comfortable, moisture-wicking clothes and non-slip shoes. Plus, don’t forget to wear life jackets even if both of you are strong swimmers.

18. Try indoor rock climbing

If the idea of getting dirty in front of your date scares you, try indoor rock climbing, an adventure with no dirt involved.

Tip: If your date finds the activity challenging, start with an easy wall and offer them support. Try alternating who climbs and bells to ensure you both get to try something different.

19. Enjoy a bike ride

Check out a neighborhood together on your bikes. Do not forget to carry a water bottle with you.

Tip: Check the bikes are in good condition before heading out. Choose the most scenic neighborhood for a memorable experience.

20. Visit a zoo

Going to a zoo with a date is budget-friendly and fun.

Tip: Don’t forget to apply sunscreen and drink lots of water on this date. Carry an umbrella that you can offer your date to protect from the sun.

21. Plant a tree

Create a symbol of your love by planting a tree together.

Tip: If you plan to plant a tree in a public place, ensure you have the permission to do so. Also, plant a tree where it can get enough sunlight and water.

22. Rent a motor scooter

Set out on a fun tour by renting a motor scooter and exploring your neighborhood together.

Tip: Check if you need a special license or permit for the scooter. Don’t forget to stop for snacks or enjoy the scenic view.

23. Visit the beach

If you live near a beach, then you have one of the best places to go on a date. Go on a beach trip and enjoy nature.

Tip: Remember to apply sunscreen and offer some to your date. Wear sunglasses and a hat to be comfortable. Carry water bottles, a mat, and some light snacks to have an enjoyable time outdoors.

24. Enjoy a bonfire

If you have a backyard, then arrange for a bonfire during a cold winter evening. Do not forget to carry some cozy blankets.

Tip: Keep some water and a fire extinguisher handy and ensure the fire is fully out before leaving. Wear warm clothes for a comfortable experience.

Cute Date Ideas For Teens

Is your date quite adorable? Then here are some cute date ideas that you may try.

25. Have an ice-cream date

An ice-cream date is for those who are too shy to visit a restaurant together.

Tip: If you plan to have a good conversation on this date, you should opt for a cup instead of a cone to eat for a longer time.

26. Share letters of your favorite memories together

Take some time to write and exchange heartfelt letters about your favorite memories as a teenage couple.

Tip: Add doodles, photos, or even inside jokes to make the letters more special. You can also write about particular experiences or those little things that made your relationship unique.

27. Dress up in a thrift store

Visit a thrift store and play dress up with your date. Have fun creating new looks for each other.

Tip: Not all thrift stores have a great selection, so do some research and find the best ones in your area. To make it more fun and challenging, keep a set budget within which you can pick clothes.

28. Click couple pictures

Look up couples pose online. Imitate the poses with your date and create an album of memories.

Tip: Start with silly poses to break the ice. Once your date seems comfortable, then try more intimate poses.

Quick tip

Create a thematic picture book out of each other’s bucket lists, collecting pictures and simultaneously getting to know each other’s passions and aspirations.

29. Sing your hearts out at a karaoke night

It’s okay if you mess up the lyrics. Just have a fun time with your date.

Tip: Do your research and go to a karaoke parlor that offers the kind of songs you and your date will enjoy.

30. Make a time capsule

Save your favorite items, funny notes, and pictures by creating a time capsule together.

Tip: Instead of writing regular notes, try to write predictions for each other. You can also write a message for your future self. You can also put some tiny items in the capsule that remind you of an inside joke or something meaningful to your bond.

31. Go stargazing

When the skies are clear, go to a good spot where you and your date can spend a cozy night together observing the stars.

Tip: Check the weather forecast and moon phase for the clearest skies. Remember to carry warm clothing, bug spray, and snacks for a cozy experience.

32. Have a spa date

A homemade face pack, some cucumbers, a soothing tea, and nice relaxing music are what you need for this calm and peaceful date.

Tip: Light candles and infuse aromatic essential oils to enhance the experience. You can keep some books by your sides that you can read after removing the face packs. 

33. Cook for your date

Cook a new cuisine for your date. Even if you mess up, at least you will have a good laugh together. You can also try out a cooking class.

Tip: If you have never tried cooking, it’s best to go for an easy dish like pasta or pancakes. Once everything is ready, sit down, enjoy the food, and discuss the process.

34. Try Couples’ Yoga

Check out some YouTube videos of couples doing yoga and try some easy poses. Try this at your own risk.

Tip: Ensure there is enough room to do the poses comfortably. Don’t rush through the poses, and communicate with each other.

35. Check out a photo booth

Clicking pictures at a photo booth is a must. Don’t miss out on this experience.

Tip: Consider a few cute poses so you do not waste time thinking of poses when the countdown starts. Use some props to make the pictures even more fun and unique.

36. Have an insta photoshoot

Look for pretty spots in your neighborhood and click pictures of each other to fill your Instagram profile.

Tip: Look for local murals, parks, or cozy cafés with nice aesthetics. And if your date is too shy to pose as a couple, go for their solo candid images.

37. Plan a dessert date

For a date with a sweet tooth, a dessert date with a variety of desserts is the perfect way to spend time.

Tip: Check for allergy-friendly options if you or your date is allergic to certain foods. If you prefer staying in, consider setting up a DIY dessert bar at home!

38. Visit a botanical garden

Spend some time in beautiful nature by observing flowers and trees at a botanical garden.

Tip: If you or your date have pollen allergies, take antihistamines beforehand. Pack a picnic bag with sandwiches, fruit, and refreshing drinks to enjoy a cozy meal.

Budget Date Ideas For Teens

Don’t worry if you are low on money. You can still plan a classy date on a tight budget.

39. Watch the sunrise/sunset

Pick a spot from where you see the sunrise or sunset the best and plan your next date there.

Tip: Check the weather forecast to avoid clouds blocking the view. And if the popular locations are crowded, opt for a quieter, lesser-known place.

40. Go skating in a park

Go skating in a park because visiting the park costs nothing.

Tip: Ensure both you and your date wear protective gear. If your date is new to skating, choose a location near the grass to soften the falls.

41. Create a music video

Create a music video with your date. You only need your camera or phone and a music player.

Tip: Start with silly clips to make a funny video first. Keep the video simple and focus on having fun instead of making the perfect video.

42. Go for a hike

If your date is adventurous and loves the outdoors, go hiking with them.

Tip: Check the weather forecast before stepping out. Dress comfortably for an enjoyable experience. Choose a shorter hike if your date is a beginner.

43. Check out a fair

Go to a local fair where the Ferris wheel can give your date and you a good adrenaline rush.

Tip: Set a budget for rides and food. Try going on a weekday or earlier during the weekdays to avoid crowds and have a fun experience.

44. Play video games

Invite your date for a fun-filled time playing video games. Tease and challenge them to a gaming session.

Tip: If your date is not good at gaming, then opt for a partner game and play together instead of playing against each other.

45. Try a DIY tutorial together

Pick a DIY video on YouTube and create something interesting out of minimal items.

Tip: Purchase the required materials in advance. Lay down a newspaper or a plastic sheet to avoid making a mess. Upcycling t-shirts and candle-making are some fun ideas you can try to make your date more enjoyable.

46. Create a masterpiece together

Try out a hobby such as painting or take a pottery class together. Trying something for the first time will create fun memories.

Tip: Choose a hobby class that interests both of you. Avoid selecting something that only one of you would enjoy while the other feels left out.

47. Binge-watch a show

Binge-watch your favorite series together. The most you will spend on is popcorn or pizza and soft drinks. This also doubles up as a great movie night idea.

Tip: Make a list of all the shows or series you can watch together. Choose the one you both feel like watching at that time. Keep your phones away to enjoy every moment together.

48. Go on a picnic

Look for a good spot, pack some good meals from home, and enjoy a nice picnic with your date.

Tip: Remember to carry bug spray and check the weather report before leaving. Choose an offbeat location to spend some quiet time together.

Trivia

Keeping an open mind and a positive attitude, along with a list of good topics or jokes to crack, can help move the conversation on a picnic date. Like Gretchen Rubin says, “You bring your own weather to a picnic.”

49. Bake something sweet

If you have baking accessories and ingredients ready, then invite your date for a fun-filled baking session at home.

Tip: Buy extra ingredients so that in case you make a mistake and you have to start over again, you can do it with the extra ingredients.

50. Read a book together

For bookworms, reading a romance novel on the couch by the fireplace is the perfect love date.

Tip: Buy extra ingredients so you don’t have to start over if you make a mistake. Split up the tasks to make the process more interactive.

51. Visit an animal shelter

Enjoy some love time with animals and your date at an animal shelter.

Tip: If either of you is allergic, choose a shelter with hypoallergenic animals.

52. Solve a puzzle

Solving a puzzle is time-consuming but a fun way to spend some quality time with your date.

Tip: Keep snacks handy, especially when the puzzle involves hundreds of pieces.

53. Visit a trampoline park

If you love outdoor adventures, a trampoline park visit can be an excellent way to have fun with your special one. These activities are appropriate for all ages and will warrant unlimited laughter and fun.

Tip: Do not forget to warm up a little before getting on the trampoline to avoid sprains. Go during off-peak hours to get more time and space.

54. Go to a swimming pool

Who doesn’t like to chill at a pool on a warm summer day? So, take your date to a swimming pool and unwind with enthralling games. Also, don’t forget to take drinks and snacks along.

Tip: Apply sunscreen if swimming outdoors. If your date is not confident of their swimming, then stick to the shallow end of the pool.

55. Try outdoor yoga

If you and your partner enjoy yoga, a yoga date can be a fulfilling and relaxing experience. Select a beautiful and serene spot such as a park, hilltop, or beach and stretch your body while soaking the sun.

Tip: Look for a quiet spot away from crowds. Also, try the easy yoga poses first before moving on to the complicated poses. 

Things To Consider Before Going On A Date

As a teenager, you have probably seen your friends start dating, and now you are excited to begin this exciting chapter in your life, too. However, before your first date, there are a few essential things to consider.

• You are emotionally ready: Dating should be a pleasant experience, and you must be fully prepared. Go on a date only when you feel emotionally ready for it. 
• You know your boundaries: It is easy to resist peer pressure and emulate what others are doing. But it is important to set personal boundaries. Even the person you are going out on a date with should be aware of it and respect your limits. 
• You know you are safe: Safety should be your top priority and non-negotiable. Try to pick a public place for your date and make sure someone knows where you are.
• You know what you want: Before going on a date, clarify your expectations with your date. Let them know what date you are open to and what activities you are interested in. 

Safety Measures To Take When Going On A Date

Safety is a vital part of a date. As a teen, it’s essential to ensure you’re dating someone you trust and in a safe location for young people. Here are some safety tips to remember before heading out on a date.

• Keep your parents or guardians informed about your whereabouts. Let them know who you’re with and when you will be back.
• Whether your date is an old friend or a new acquaintance, opt for a known location. Places like the mall, coffee shops, or restaurants can be your safe bet as people will be around in such places. 
• Ensure your phone is fully charged so you can call or text someone in an emergency. 
• If possible, avoid depending on your date for a ride. Try to arrange for your way to get home through a parent, friend, or ride service.
• Avoid alcohol and drugs. It is always advisable to stay clear-headed during dates so you are in complete control of your decisions. 
• Trust your instincts. Leave if something does not feel right at any point in your date. It’s okay to say no or change plans if you feel uncomfortable. 

Infographic: Budget Date Ideas For Teens

If you think your first date as a teenager needs to be all things lavish and pricey, think again. Because it is the quality time and little close-knit moments with your date that matter more than buying them an expensive gift or meal. Scroll through this infographic for some economical yet exciting ideas to make your first date cherishable.

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Illustration: Best Date Ideas For Teens To Spend Happy Time Together

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