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A playful and fun relationship creates a healthy bond between two people. With some games to play with your boyfriend/girlfriend, you can add excitement to your relationship. Playing games is fun, keeps you engaged, and is a refreshing way to know your partner better. Besides reducing worries and stress, it refreshes your mind and adds color to the relationship. Read on for some interesting games to play with your partner and lighten the mood while spicing things up.
Key Pointers
- Brighten up your relationship with your partner by playing fun games.
- Spice it up with a game of twister or dare your partner to do something unusual.
- Play video games or recall each other’s embarrassing moments to lighten the mood.
- True or false, treasure hunt, and many more games as you scroll through.
Benefits Of Playing Games Together
Playing games together is a fun and effective way to strengthen your bond, nurture your relationship, improve communication, and create lasting memories.
Recreational games promote the release of oxytocin, known as the ‘love hormone,’ which is linked to trust, empathy, and intimacy — the key factors in building relationships.
A study suggests that couples who play board games interact more, whether through discussing strategies or competing, leading to increased oxytocin levels and a deeper connection (1).
Playing games with your partner can reduce stress by increasing endorphin levels and boosting creativity and emotional well-being. Playing can also improve brain function and stimulate the mind.
It can enhance intimacy and trust levels with your partner and keep you both feeling energetic.
Play keeps relationships fun and exciting and helps healthily heal resentments, conflicts, and disagreements. You can use playtime to bond with your partner and build a feeling of safety with them.
Research also shows that couples who engaged in playful activities experienced more positive emotions and felt more content and connected with their partner (2).
50 Cute And Fun Games To Play With Your Boyfriend/Girlfriend
Conversation Starters
1. Guess the movie
On your phone or computer, play a scene from a movie you know your partner has watched. Cover their eyes or make them face their back to the screen to listen to the scene’s dialogue. Each time they guess the movie correctly, they get the point. The winner gets to pick the movie whenever you are out for your movie date.
2. Truth and lie
In this game, both of you can take turns to list three things about yourself, of which two are true and one is a lie. You have to point out the lie and can also give a reason for your guess. It is a cool way to learn interesting facts about each other. The one with the maximum correct guesses can get a gift from their partner.
3. True or false
During this activity, if you cannot come up with three things about yourself, think of only one and ask your partner whether it is true or false. It is a good way to get to know each other better. Also, in a game like this, you get to mention funny stuff that you wouldn’t normally divulge to your partner.
4. Truth or dare
Roll a bottle to start the game. If it turns to your side, pick truth or dare. Your partner would either ask you a question or give you a dare to be fulfilled. If you fail to answer the question or fulfill your dare, you get a punishment pre-decided and consented to by both of you. This game gives you the opportunity to strengthen your bond and get to know your partner on a deeper level.
5. Board games
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If you want to take a walk down memory lane and relive your childhood days, go for a good old board game. You can try Monopoly, Ludo, and similar games that will ignite your competitive spirit. Remember, this game is a competition and you are playing the game to win. Devise a winning strategy and do not be lenient with your partner in a board game. Be in it to win it.
6. Ask me anything
Both of you need to write a set of questions on pre-decided topics and put them in a box. Shake the box, take turns to pick a note, and read the question. Answer correctly, get to know each other better, and build upon the trust you two share. Keep the questions light and enjoyable.
Quick tip7. Complete my story
Start a story with just one line, and your partner will take it forward by adding the next line, followed by you. For instance, you start with ‘once upon a time, there was a pretty princess,’ your partner takes it forward with ‘but the pretty princess was an evil witch.’ You will be amazed at the story and its end.
8. Date, marry, or kill?
You can give your partner the names of three celebrities and ask them to pick which celebrity they would like to date, marry, or kill. Try to keep only well-known people as options because using real-life people can make the game awkward for both of you.
9. Make a pick
It is a light game to spend some quality time together. Give your partner two options from a category and ask them to pick one. They need not give any reasons for their choice. Give them options, such as movies, games, songs, and sports. If you know them well, make the options difficult to choose.
10. 20 questions
Asking each other questions can be a great way to connect, especially if you’re new to dating. It’s an opportunity to discover more about each other and enhance your connection, whether you’re conversing in person or via messages.
11. Who am I?
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You only need sticky notes, a pen, and a little imagination. Put a character’s name on one of the notes and secretly place it on your partner’s forehead. Using a series of yes or no questions, let your partner deduce the identity of the character. It’s a fun game that depends on reasoning and communication.
12. Compliment exchange
Engage in a compliment exchange game to boost each other’s confidence. Give genuine compliments to your partner, emphasizing their abilities, talents, and things you admire. It’s an uplifting activity that deepens your understanding and connection of one another.
13. Rhyming words
Play a game of rhyming words for some wordplay fun. There are simple rules like one player says a word, and the other player says something that rhymes with it. Continue taking turns coming up with rhyming words until you both run out. It’s a fun method to test your vocabulary while still having a good time.
14. What if?
Create a series of hypothetical circumstances and ask your partner how they would react to them to play this game. You have a plethora of options to explore. It’s a fun way to engage your partner in imaginative talks and learn more about their opinions and preferences.
Creative Challenges
15. Face don’t lie
Here is your time to make funny faces while asking questions you have wanted to ask each other. Sit facing each other and ask questions. Answer only with a ‘yes’ or a ‘no.’ For instance, you may ask, ‘Do you like my new spectacles?’ For a ‘yes,’ your partner will have to make an expression with their eyes—they can blink or roll their eyes. And for a ‘no,’ they can express with their lips only—purse their lips or pout.
16. Guess the tune
If both of you are into music, this is a fun game. Play only the prelude to a song and ask your partner to guess it. Make sure you opt for romantic songs only. Not only is this game full of fun and enjoyment, but it will also strengthen the connection you share with your partner.
17. Cards
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There are several types of card games, such as UNO, Set, and Go Fish. You can buy one and enjoy a unique date by playing with your partner. Whoever wins gets to decide a very creative and fun punishment for the loser.
18. Embarrass me
It is a quirky game in which you outdo each other, recounting your most embarrassing moments in life. You start with one incident. Then, your partner shares theirs to beat your experience. Keep sharing until you run out of them. In the end, you two have to select the most embarrassing incident mutually, and the winner gets a prize from the other person.
19. I am the king/queen
You both get a turn to be a king or a queen for ten minutes. You could ask your partner to do anything. Ask them to dance to a song or give you a foot massage or anything that comes to your mind. But remember, if you go first and are too harsh on your partner, you may not be spared when it’s their turn.
20. Dare to do
It is an advanced version of the dare game. Tell your partner to do something that you can do, but they cannot. For instance, dare your partner to stand in a challenging yoga pose. If they fail to complete the dare, you win a point.
21. Love box
In the mood for some romantic fun? Make notes with messages and wishes for your partner. For instance, you can write, ‘I am grateful to have a wonderful partner like you,’ or ‘I wish you could give me a bear hug right now.’ You can fix a day in a week and leave notes for each other.
22. One word one memory
Give your partner a single word and let them guess which memory is associated with that word. This recollection could be based on a shared event, allowing you to relive your past memories and remember why you both grew fond of each other.
23. Would you rather?
Give your partner two interesting scenarios and ask which one they prefer. This might spark a stimulating conversation about your preferences and the reasons behind your decisions. However, keep in mind that this is a fun game that should not be taken too seriously.
24. Fill in the blanks
Pick a topic and fill in the missing blanks with sentences. You can create a beautiful story with your partner by filling in the blanks. Couples that are creative will like it, and the results can surprise them. The storytelling experience provides endless opportunities and keeps things interesting.
25. Romantic scrabble
Almost everyone has played Scrabble at some point in their lives. You can make your own rules in romantic scrabble, such as only using romantic terms. When you reach a particular number of points, your partner may opt to kiss you or hug you. It’s a fun intimate game for couples that will definitely spice up your time together.
26. Fishbowl
In the game of Fishbowl, you use a container, similar to a fishbowl, filled with folded pieces of paper. These papers have words on them that you must act out, akin to charades. You can add a twist by having two bowls: one with words to act, explain, or draw, and the other with three alternatives: explain, act, or draw, all of which always go back in the bowl. It’s a creative and entertaining game that mixes aspects of charades and pictionary.
27. Karaoke
You can sing with your partner if you install a karaoke app on your laptop or look for your favorite songs on YouTube. It’s a simple way to have fun with your friends while singing along to your favorite tunes.
28. Tongue twister
You provide your partner a tongue twister and see the number of times they can repeat it correctly in a given time. It’s a great approach to get your partner talking and have some fun.
29. Abbreviation
This game is perfect for long-distance relationships. You and your girlfriend trade acronyms or abbreviations, and she attempts to figure out what they mean. The game is won by the player who correctly guesses the most abbreviations.
30. Picture puzzle
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Make a picture puzzle with a photo of the two of you on it. Mix up the pieces and challenge your partner to solve it in as little time as possible. You can even time each other to give a competitive element to this enjoyable game.
31. Virtual language lesson
Learn a new language with your partner by using virtual language lessons or language-learning applications. Experiment with speaking and challenge one another to utilize the language in everyday situations.
32. Origami challenge
If you’re looking for a creative activity to do together, consider origami. You don’t have to be an expert, there are great tutorials on YouTube to help you. Once you’ve mastered it, you can make it into a fun challenge by timing yourselves. It’s a simple and delightful way to spend time together while discovering your creative side.
33. Emoji game
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Instead of using song lyrics or movie titles, you can create whatever message you wish to send to your lover or girlfriend in this emoji game. This is a fun and flirtatious method to play the game. The enjoyable part is waiting for your partner to figure out the secret message.
34. Reverse writing
In this game, all you need to do is simply type your message in reverse. For instance, if you wish to convey the message, ‘I miss you so much right now,” you may type it as ‘now right much so you miss I.’ It’s a great method to test your partner’s ability to read the reversed words.
Physical Games
35. You blink, you lose
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It is an old game full of fun and laughter, probably played by your parents too. You have to look into each other’s eyes without blinking. The first one to blink loses, and the winner gets to make the loser do anything they wish. You can make it a fun game by asking for something that you never have.
36. Rock, paper, scissors
You probably have played it with your friends, and now it’s time to play with your partner. Rules remain the same, but you can make it interesting by adding new ones. For instance, the winner gets to make the loser do whatever they want. Or whoever wins can make your partner recite a poem like a child. Keep the punishment as funny as possible.
37. Treasure hunt
If you both possess an insatiable thirst for adventure and love to overcome challenges, then this may just be the game for you two. Both of you need to create a puzzle. You can draw a big image and then cut it into pieces like a jigsaw puzzle. Select one room and hide the pieces in any corner within a stipulated time. Then, switch rooms and start looking for the puzzle pieces. The person to complete the puzzle first wins. You can also leave clues on the back of each puzzle piece as to the location of the other pieces.
38. Draw my animal
You and your partner can sit in separate corners and draw an animal you think your partner is similar to in nature. For instance, you can draw a puppy for your partner if you find them cute and adorable. Reveal your sketches to have a good laugh. You can try this game to understand each other’s first impressions.
39. Roleplay
If you are looking for an entertaining game, try roleplay. Decide a fictional or real character and imitate them. You will have to dress, talk, and behave like the character you have chosen. Whatever your story, try bringing some twists in the game. The weirder the characters, the more interesting the game gets.
40. Video games
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If you both like video games, then get ready to become competitors. Pick any game that both of you love to play. Imagine how much fun it would be if you beat them at their own game. The punishment can be decided before the game begins or even after the winner is declared.
A study has shown that couples who game together enjoy spending time with each other and better understand each other’s temperament. Of the 33 couples participating in the study, 29 responded positively when asked about the benefits of playing video games (in this case, League of Legends) with their partner. It suggests that couples who spend their leisure time playing together exhibit better satisfaction, closeness, and commitment. One reportedly stated, “We understand each other more. I know what she is thinking and she knows what I’m thinking. In a game she made a good play and I followed up and in real life I know where she wants to go out and eat, etc (3).”
41. A minute marathon
Keep setting tasks for each other to be completed in a minute. For instance, do a maximum number of push-ups in sixty seconds or finish a drink in a minute. Compare the outcomes, and the person who performs better in a given task earns a point. The one with the maximum points becomes the winner.
42. Twister
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You have probably heard about the twister game or seen people playing it. You can check who is the most flexible of you two. It is also a great way to get close to your partner when twisting and turning.
43. Guess the food
If you both are foodies, you would like to play this game. Blindfold your partner, make them eat something, and ask them to guess what it is. If you are not sure of their food allergies, change the game to smelling instead of tasting. Allow them to sniff the food for a few seconds and ask them to make a guess. Every correct guess wins them a point.
44. Flirty Jenga
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Jenga is a popular game that involves stacking and removing blocks in turns. You lose if the tower falls. Add a twist by writing romantic challenges on each block. Follow the romantic challenge written on that block if the tower falls while you’re removing a piece of it. It adds a sweet and playful dimension to the game.
45. Water balloon fight
On a hot summer day, play a romantic and fun game with your love. It’s an outstanding way to keep active and stay cool. You will need buckets, balloons, and a water source. The idea is to tag the other player with a balloon while avoiding being tagged. It can get competitive, but it’s also a great opportunity to foster teamwork and take part in some friendly rivalry.
46. Arcade games
Playing arcade games with your girlfriend is a great idea for a date. You can find a range of options that the two of you can enjoy playing together, whether you favor older options like Space Invaders, Pac-Man, and Mario Kart, or more modern ones like racing games and dancing machines.
47. Blow the balloon
Each partner is given a pair of balloons as well as a time limit such as one minute. The goal is to inflate as many balloons as possible in the time provided. The person who inflates the most balloons in the shortest amount of time wins.
48. Sink the shot
This is a fun and well-liked game for couples on date nights. One person begins the game by pouring liquor into a shot glass that is floating in a bigger glass filled with liquor. If the shot glass sinks, they must drink the entire glass, including the shot. If it stays floating, the next player takes their turn, pouring more liquor into the shot glass. The game continues in this pattern until a player successfully sinks the shot glass. To add a romantic twist, you and your partner can take turns playing, and the individual with the most ‘sunk’ shot glasses fulfills a request from the other person.
49. Cook-off challenge
Set up a friendly cook-off in which both of you prepare a dish without sharing a favorite recipe. Then, taste and judge each other’s creations based on presentation, taste, and creativity.
50. Minute-to-win-it games
In minute-to-win-it games, you make quick and humorous challenges out of everyday items and compete against the clock. Couples can have fun taking turns trying out interesting tasks like stacking cups or transferring items between bowls with chopsticks.
51. Dart the balloon
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You can hang up a dartboard and stick balloons on it. Take turns aiming at the balloons. You might also introduce unique rules like the loser planning a surprise date or the winner receiving a special treat.
Adapting Games For Different Relationship Stages
Not all games are suitable for all stages of a relationship. Games for boyfriends and girlfriends can be adapted to suit your needs based on where you are in your relationship. Here is how:
- Getting-to-know-you games like ‘Guess the movie,’ ‘True or false,’ ‘Date, marry, or kill,’ ‘20 questions,’ and ‘What if?’ are perfect for the beginning stages of your relationship. They can help you get to know your partner and their preferences better.
- Some games, like ‘Embarrass me,’ ‘Romantic scrabble,’ ‘Tongue twister,’ and ‘Reverse writing,’ are suitable for a more intermediate stage in your relationship when you have established trust between you and your partner.
- When you’ve been with your partner for a long time and are looking to reignite the fun and playfulness in your relationship, physical games are a good choice. You can also try video games and board games but try darts, arcade games, water balloon fights, and even roleplaying for a fun and romantic time.
- If you and your partner are separated by distance, consider online video games, texting games like abbreviations and emoji games, learning a new language together, and karaoke. These boyfriend and girlfriend games are perfect for bridging the gap in a long-distance relationship.
- Relationships are only sometimes smooth. However, there will always be ups and downs. If you want to navigate a rough patch by playing games together, avoid competitive games. Instead, focus on games that build appreciation for each other, like ‘Treasure hunt,’ ‘Cook-off challenge,’ ‘Love box,’ ‘Compliment exchange,’ and ‘Complete my story.’
Frequently Asked Questions
1. What are some fun games to play with boyfriends on the first date?
First dates are all about getting to know one another, understanding each other’s tastes and preferences, views on various aspects of life, and so on. To make the evening more engaging, consider incorporating date night games for couples. Some fun options include Never Have I Ever, 20 Questions, Rapid Fire, Two Truths and a Lie, I Spy, and Would You Rather.
2. What are some kissing games to play with boyfriends?
Kindle the romance and intimacy between you and your boyfriend with interesting kissing games such as Seven minutes in heaven, Secret pecks, Marathon kissing, Post office, or Eyes wide open.
3. How can playing games together help us learn more about each other?
Playing talking games for couples allows you to learn more about your partner’s likes and dislikes, experiences, secrets, and funny memories. This helps you better understand each other’s personalities, making you know one another better.
4. What are some tips for making game time more fun for both partners?
You can make game time more fun by picking games that both of you can enjoy, focusing on being present with your partner, respecting each other’s boundaries, incorporating some jokes and humor, and being a good sport.
5. What are some of the common pitfalls couples should avoid when playing games together?
When playing games together, avoid negative behaviors like being rude or mean if you’re losing. Being overly competitive may ruin the fun and enjoyment of the experience. Avoid insulting each other or calling names, and always remember to respect each other’s boundaries.
6. Is it important to find games that both me and your boyfriend/girlfriend enjoy playing?
Yes, it is recommended to find games you both enjoy playing for maximum fun. Picking a game the other person dislikes can ruin the fun for both parties as they may not be as involved or engaged as you would like them to be.
7. What are some games that require no setup?
Games like ‘Complete My Story,’ ‘Would You Rather,’ and ’20 Questions’ can be played anytime, anywhere, as they don’t need any setup.
Guess the movie, true or false, truth and lie, face don’t lie, board games, truth or dare, and treasure hunt are some of the best games to play with your boyfriend/girlfriend. You may also play more romantic games, such as a love box where you leave love notes for each other. Games help you know your partner better and infuse fun and excitement into the relationship. You may ask interesting questions on truth or dare games to have a fun time with your partner. Spending quality time together is the best way to strengthen your relationship, and these games are perfect to keep you and your partner entertained.
Infographic: Romantic Games To Play With Boyfriend/Girlfriend
It is good to have a few romantic games up your sleeve when you want to get true to your feelings about each other. So, if you are planning a date night with your special one soon, the following infographic list is what you need to keep handy. Read on and be sure to save it as well. Illustration: Momjunction Design Team
Games add a fun element in the evenings that you spend with your special one. Try out any of the video games in this article and have an entertaining time.
References
- Karen K. Melton et. al.; (2019); Examining Couple Recreation and Oxytocin via the Ecology of Family Experiences Framework.
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/jomf.12556 - Krystyna S. Aune et. al.; (2002); Antecedents and Consequences of Adult Play in Romantic Relationships.
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/1475-6811.00019 - Sarah Evans et. al.; (2018); Couples Who Slay Together, Stay Together: Benefits, Challenges, and Relational Quality among Romantic Couples Who Game.
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/325787425_Couples_Who_Slay_Together_Stay_Together_Benefits_Challenges_and_Relational_Quality_among_Romantic_Couples_Who_Game
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