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Do you think that someone you know is developing feelings for you although he doesn’t confess it? Then you should look out for the signs he loves you secretly. He might be dropping some hints or giving out mixed signals, but you are unsure whether he loves you or not. Some guys keep their feelings hidden for various reasons. They can be waiting for a green signal from you, or they may not be confident enough to approach you. In this post, we talk about the subtle signs a guy likes you secretly.
25 Signs He Secretly Likes You
1. He stares at you
You can tell if a guy has a secret crush on you when he tries to catch your gaze and hold it for a long time. Then, when you notice him raising his eyebrows amusingly while you’re talking, you’ll know he secretly likes you. Perhaps you will notice him staring at you across the room and smile when you catch sight of him.
2. He acts nervous
When a man keeps his feelings secret from you, he may act nervously, such as playing with his fingers or running his fingers through his hair. So, if you notice him being jittery around you, even shaking slightly, or having difficulty talking to you, these could be the signs a guy is scared of his feelings for you and is trying to hide them.
3. He’s around you
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When he secretly likes you, he will find an excuse to be near you at all times. You will notice that he creates opportunities to be around you. For instance, you might find him hanging out outside your class or desk, eating in the cafeteria when you’re there with friends, or drinking water near your space.
4. He asks personal questions
Another sign that a guy has a secret crush on you is when he shows a desire to know about your love life and keeps asking you some personal questions. For example, he’s curious about the type of guy you prefer to date and what you like to do on weekends. He will also reveal a part of his life.
5. He disguises his questions
Some guys who aren’t open about feelings may ask indirect questions or in a light-hearted tone. If he asks questions that aren’t typical chit-chat, it’s a good indication that he has an interest in you but is hiding it.
6. He’s willing to help you
You can tell a guy is affectionate to you when he tries to help you. For example, if you need help using the computer, moving your stuff to a new place, or shopping, he is always willing to help without expecting anything in return out of solicitude. He wants you to feel special and can go to any length to meet your needs.
7. He smiles every time he sees you
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Whenever a guy has a secret crush on you, he smiles and opens up. He smiles at you when you enter the room. You can notice his excitement and warmth for you, a tell-tale sign that he secretly likes you. Even on his worst days, your presence will brighten his day.
8. He mirrors your body language
You may notice that he is mirroring your behavior or body language out of devotion. For example, if you lean forward, he might lean forward. If you place your hands on your hips, he might copy your gestures. Play around with this a little by changing your position and see if his position changes.
Did you know?9. He teases you playfully
Another sign that a guy has a secret crush on you is when he teases you playfully as a way of flirting with you. His speech may contain jokes at some point. However, he’s pretty sure he’ll up the game if you flirt back.
10. He remembers details about you
He pays attention when you talk, and he remembers details about you, your life, and your interests. For example, if he remembers specifics from previous conversations, such as your favorite music band or the name of your pet cat, it shows he cares and pays attention, which can be a strong sign of interest or liking.
11. He keeps the conversation going
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When he finds you, he will seize the opportunity to talk to you and figure out how to be a part of your conversations. One of the signs of a guy secretly having a crush on you is when he brings up topics that he knows will pique your interest.
12. He notices everything about you
When a guy secretly expresses fondness and likes you, he might compliment you on your physical appearance, such as your new dress or hairstyle. Even the tiniest details will not escape his attention. He will not only compliment your appearance but also admire your inner qualities, talents, or intelligence.
13. He finds out details about you
If a guy has a crush on you secretly, he may seek information about you from other sources, such as common friends. He will even be orbiting your social media accounts, such as Instagram and Facebook. He might even bring you up in conversation with his friends and family more often.
14. He shows his jealous side
When he notices another guy around you, he acts strangely. If you have a longing to know whether a guy secretly likes you, watch what he does when another guy comes around you. If you talk about other guys or go out with others, he won’t like it. A guy who likes you may behave in ways that indicate jealousy out of protectiveness.
Did you know?15. He tells his friends about you
When a guy has a secret adoration for you, chances are he has told his friends about you, and they treat you differently whenever they see you. So, keep an eye on how his friends interact with you in his presence. If they’re teasing him and pairing you two, he’s probably into you, and his friends are aware of it.
16. He seeks alone time with you
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Though spending time with a group of friends is exciting, we all crave alone time with people we care about. If your guy friend has a secret liking for you, he may look for reasons to see you alone. Even when you’re in a group, he tries to find ways to spend some time with you.
17. He ’likes’ you on social media
’Likes’ on social media posts are the new-age way of determining whether or not a guy secretly loves you. For example, you post a photo savoring a pinata colada or a photo of a recent vacation in the most exotic location, and he is the first person to like and comment on your photos.
18. He agrees with you on everything
If your man likes you but hides it, he will avoid confrontation. He doesn’t want to say or do anything that might offend you. He wants your favorite movies or TV shows to be his as well. He may hold the same beliefs as you or eat the same foods that you like.
19. He finds reasons to touch you
He may frequently touch you and find reasons to do so. His touch will include chivalry. Perhaps he wraps his arm around your back while strolling through a crowd, wraps his blazer around your shoulders, or touches you while assisting you in getting out of the car.
20. He is the first one to respond
You will know if a guy has a secret crush on you when he is the first to respond to whatever you say or do. He loves you more than anyone else and is always willing to keep you company when you need it. He is not only the first to respond but also values and shows reverence for your opinions.
21. He uses your name in conversations
You can tell a guy likes you if he uses your name often. It is also important to pay attention to how he pronounces your name. He smiles a lot when saying your name, which is a great sign he has a secret inclination for you. He may even call you by a nickname.
22. He changes his looks
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A subtle or obvious change in his appearance or overall personality is a good indication that he secretly loves you. For example, when you’re around him, you’ll notice that he dresses dapperly or that he becomes more enthusiastic or bubbly.
23. He doesn’t break his promises
He may be a man of few words but will keep his word. A guy who has a secret crush on you keeps his promises because he values you and takes you seriously. It shows that he is willing to have a commitment and an affirmation of his passion for you.
24. He buys you gifts
If he brings you a random gift, buys you lunch, or buys you gorgeous dresses for no reason, it is because he thinks you are special and he secretly expresses tenderness and care for you. When it comes to buying gifts or spending money on others, guys will only do it for dear people.
25. He blushes when he sees you
He blushes whenever you meet him or make eye contact with him. When you tap him on the back or touch him in any way, you can see him blush. When you compliment him or talk to him, he will blush because he secretly expresses enchantment for you.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. What causes a man to feel emotionally connected to a woman?
Men express affection and gratitude when they are emotionally connected. They hug and kiss their partners. Men are also driven by sexuality, often to a greater extent than women, so they will get into intense intimacy.
2. What is the most intimate act?
The highest level of intimacy frequently necessitates a high level of trust in a partnership. Holding hands, kissing, cuddling, and having passionate sex are a few intimate acts.
3. What are the phases of a man’s love?
The various stages for a man in love are appreciation, infatuation, captivation, impression, conviction, reaffirmation, and commitment.
4. What should I do if I think he likes me?
Consider showing interest or asking him directly if you notice signs that he likes you. This can help open lines of communication and make him feel comfortable expressing his feelings. However, if you get mixed signals, it might be best to give him time and space to figure out his feelings and share them when he’s ready.
Unless you have a crystal ball to divine what’s going on inside a guy’s head, it’s nearly impossible to know what he’s thinking. If you’re wondering if a guy secretly loves you, watch him and pay attention to his unspoken gestures to see if he has feelings for you. The signs he loves you without saying it can be subtle and normal, such as simply being around you or those disguised questions in his conversation. Thus, you must be attentive and look for signs that indicate he has secret feelings for you. Also, if you come to know that you misread the signs, don’t blame yourself. It is not the end—be patient, as your guy will enter your life at the appropriate time.
Infographic: Ways To Tell A Guy You Like Him Back
If you are sure of the signs that he likes you secretly but has not opened up to you about it yet, why not drop hints for him suggesting that you like him too? This infographic brings you a list of gestures and actions that will help you convey that you like him and that there might be a chance of taking things further. Illustration: Momjunction Design Team
Key Pointers
- He may try to hide his feelings with all his might, but there are a few tell-tale signs that will show his admiration for you.
- The signs may be as small as a subtle smile when he sees you or even insecure acts of jealousy.
- If you’re wondering whether he likes you, these signs may reveal the answer.
Illustration: Subtle Signs He Loves You Secretly
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