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A girl could be blushing, smiling, or showing signs naturally when in love, but it could be tricky to know if a man is in love.
So maybe figuring out some hidden signs he’s falling in love with you can make you understand him better. You would be desperate to know if he reciprocates the same feelings as you do or it is just a one-sided love. Don’t get frustrated, as our post on some common signs can clarify his feelings for you. Till then, try being subtle, and don’t showcase your emotions for him in an open manner.
Key Pointers
- It is not always easy for a woman to know if the guy is developing romantic feelings or falling in love with her.
- Some obvious signs such as showing interest in you, glancing at you, or making you feel extra special all the time can be indications of his love for you.
- A guy in love can also show some other uncommon signs such as not stopping smiling around you, talking about the distant future with you, etc.
17 Signs That A Man Is Falling In Love With You
Want to know what your guy feels about you? Check out these hidden signs that are a sure way to know that he is falling in love with you.
1. He shows interest in you
If a man asks you many questions about yourself, he is making an effort to get to know you closely. This is one of the earliest signs that show that a man is falling in love with you.
2. He behaves like a gentleman
Have you noticed him opening the door for you or offering you his coat when it’s cold, ensuring you’re comfortable and cared for? If a man behaves like a gentleman and treats you with reverence and respect, he adores you and is falling in love with you.
3. He always sneaks a glance at you
If you look at him suddenly and find them looking at you, he genuinely likes you. This is not a creepy stare but a loving glance filled with warmth and fondness. The way he looks at you makes you feel like you’re in a state of bliss and enchantment, and it’s obvious that he’s falling in love with you.
Point to consider4. He maintains eye contact
A man who maintains eye contact with you longer than that is strictly necessary might be falling in love with you. Eye contact can capture people’s attention. This eye contact is not the normal one you establish with others. In the US, avoiding it may be seen as disinterest or even an attempt to conceal something. People are more inclined to make eye contact with those they respect, admire, or love, as it reflects positive emotions and connection (1). It is more intense and conveys his feelings and devotion for you.
5. He tries to make you happy
One of the signs a man is in love with you is that he tries to put a smile on your face. He may crack silly jokes or act funny in your presence to see you happy.
6. He accepts you with your flaws
In the initial days of a relationship, you find every trait of your partner cute, even the annoying ones
. However, once the honeymoon period is over, you start seeing them entirely. The man who accepts you unconditionally with all your flaws is falling in love with you.
7. He talks about the future
If a man displays curiosity towards your aspirations and expresses a keen interest in your future dreams, it could be a sign that he is interested in you. Little questions such as your dreams or future plans might indicate that he is falling in love with you.
8. He cares for you
He takes care of your feelings and necessities, shows his protectiveness for you, and makes you feel loved. His concern for your well-being is evident in the way he always asks how you’re doing and tries to help whenever he can. This is called compassionate love and is a sure sign that a man is falling in love with you.
Elizabeth Karls, a relationship writer and mental health advocate, recounts her observations regarding her father’s protective nature towards her mother, viewing it as a genuine sign of a man deeply in love. She explains, “I’ve seen it firsthand with my father. He has always been overprotective of my mother, and even now, after all these years, he still gets this look in his eyes whenever she so much as steps outside the house. It’s like he can’t bear the thought of her being out of his sight for even a second (i).”
Did you know?9. He finds time to be with you
He might cancel plans to join you for a last-minute dinner or wake up early to help with something important, showing how much he values your presence. Whatever free time he has, he desires to spend it with you. He enjoys your company and shares his day’s events with you freely. This way, he shows that you are important to him. You can see the joy and happiness in his eyes every time he’s around you, and it’s a clear sign that he’s falling in love with you.
10. He remembers the little things
When you are in a relationship, you both share innumerable moments filled with admiration for each other. A man who is falling in love with you remembers all the little things, such as the name of your pet dog or the name of your childhood friend.
11. He makes you feel special
Whether you wear something new or achieve something at work, your man always has good words to speak for you. When you feel low, he is the first person to make you feel better. If a man continuously compliments and tries to lift you, he is genuinely interested in you. The adoration in his eyes when he talks about you, shows that he’s falling in love with you more and more each day.
12. He is always attentive
On a date or a casual meeting, a man in love with you has eyes only for you. He listens attentively and with dedication and encourages you to share your thoughts openly.
13. He calls you often
If your man calls you more often than before, it is a sure sign that he is falling in love with you and has a strong attachment to you.
A man calling you (and often without reason) is a sign that he misses you and wants to be in touch with you. If he is constantly finding ways to deepen the connection between you both, it’s a good indication that he is falling in love with you.
14. He asks for your opinion
If a man asks for your opinion even on little things, he is falling in love with you. It is not just asking for your opinion; he actually acts on it. It is a sure sign that he respects your opinion and that you are important to him.
15. He can’t stop smiling around you
A man who cannot stop smiling when he is with you is genuinely falling head over heels in love. He tries to make a good impression on you and wants to appear happy when he is with you. Most importantly, he is thrilled to be with you. He enjoys the time with you, and it shows on his face.
16. He gives you a pet name
If a guy gives you a sweet nickname, it often reflects affection and closeness. Special names suggest you hold a unique place in his heart, and he may be developing romantic feelings. A personal nickname, like ‘coffee queen’ inspired by your habits, shows he notices and appreciates the little details about you, hinting at deeper admiration and a desire to grow closer.
17. He engages in physical touch
He may casually brush your hand while walking, or gently place his hand on your back when guiding you through a crowd, showing a desire to be close. When a man starts engaging in such physical touch, it can be a sign that he is falling in love with you. Physical touch is a powerful way of expressing affection and closeness. If he initiates hugs, holds your hand, or shows other forms of physical affection, it shows a desire for emotional connection and intimacy.
How To Reciprocate If You Love Him Too?
Recognizing the signs of a developing relationship can be exciting yet overwhelming. Knowing how to respond to these signs and nurture the connection can help build a strong, healthy bond. Here are some practical tips to guide you.
- Open communication: Share your thoughts, feelings, and intentions with honesty. Clear communication helps build trust and mutual understanding. When talking to your partner, set aside uninterrupted time, plan what you want to say, and communicate clearly. Use ‘I’ statements to express your needs, feelings, and how situations affect you (2).
California-based relationship coach Nancy Landrum suggests, “If there is any confusion about a man’s intentions, ask him directly. For example, you could say, ‘I can only continue seeing you if I know you and I are both clear about the direction this relationship is moving. I’m falling in love with you and want marriage and a family. What do you want?’”
- Show appreciation: Acknowledge small gestures and express gratitude to make your partner feel valued and appreciated. In a report published in 2021, Harvard Health states that couples who regularly express gratitude toward each other tend to have more positive feelings in their relationship. Research also shows that expressing gratitude releases oxytocin, the ‘love hormone,’ which strengthens the emotional bond between partners (3).
- Set boundaries: Discuss boundaries early on to create a safe space for both partners to grow within the relationship. Clear and effective boundaries and expectations in a relationship help both individuals respect one another, communicate openly, stay honest, remain committed, accept changes, and be willing to compromise while fostering understanding and mutual growth (4).
- Spend quality time: Engage in activities you enjoy to strengthen your bond and create shared memories. Cooking together, hiking, or playing a sport, can deepen your connection and create lasting memories.
- Address issues early: If conflicts arise, address them calmly and respectfully to prevent misunderstandings from growing. Allow the relationship to develop naturally and give each other time to build trust and comfort.
By responding thoughtfully to the signs he is falling in love with you and nurturing it with care, you can lay the foundation for a strong and lasting bond. These tips can help guide you toward a meaningful and fulfilling connection.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. How long does it take for a man to fall in love?
On average, it may take weeks or months for guys to fall in love. However, some may have love at first sight, or exhibit signs that he loves you secretly, while others may take years to fall in love.
2. What are the stages of falling in love?
The stages of falling in love include having a crush, being friends, attraction, falling in love, and commitment.
3. What behavior makes a man fall in love?
Before falling in love, it is important to know what makes a man fall in love. Falling in love is a complex emotional experience that varies from one person to another. However, men tend to fall in love with someone who allows themselves to be vulnerable. Who actively listens and shows kindness and compassion, necessary to foster an emotional connection. Treating the person with respect, respecting personal boundaries, and supporting their partner’s goals, aspirations, and dreams are desirable behavioral traits men fall in love with.
4. What questions to ask a guy to see if he loves me?
Ask questions like “How do you define a healthy relationship?” or “Which aspects of our relationship do you value the most?” It will help you evaluate his emotions and discern his love for you. You can also inquire about his future outlook by asking, “Do you see us having a future together?” Lastly, explore his viewpoint on romance by asking, “What does your ideal romantic relationship entail?” These queries can assist in assessing his emotional investment and compatibility with you.
These subtle yet obvious signs he’s falling in love with you can help you figure out some new and unusual changes to your friend’s behavior. Men may express their true feelings for you differently, but they will show how they feel in some way or another. So by observing the body language of men in love and noticing how they talk and behave around you and any changes in their mood lately, one can discern signs a man is in love. These changes may indicate their suppressed love for you. Take things slow and help them express their emotions by showing them that you feel the same way.
Infographic: Signs That A Man Is Falling In Love With You
If he is not the type to say it out loud, you can get to know him through his gestures and activities around you. To help you spot a few signs, we have prepared this infographic with telltale signs that he is falling in love with you. Illustration: Momjunction Design Team
Illustration: Clear Signs A Man Is Falling In Love With You
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Personal Experience: Source
MomJunction articles include first-hand experiences to provide you with better insights through real-life narratives. Here are the sources of personal accounts referenced in this article.
i. 10 Phenomenal Signs He Is Madly In Love With You;https://medium.com/hello-love/10-phenomenal-signs-he-is-madly-in-love-with-you-a3b0b1db4943
References
- Connect and Communicate With Eye Contact;
https://www.hprc-online.org/social-fitness/relationship-building/connect-and-communicate-eye-contact - Relationships and Communication;
https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/healthyliving/relationships-and-communication - The Importance of Showing Gratitude To Your Partner;
https://extension.usu.edu/relationships/faq/the-importance-of-showing-gratitude-to-your-partner - Setting Boundaries in Relationships;
https://www.maricopa.gov/DocumentCenter/View/82636/Setting-Boundaries-in-Relationships
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