Fruit Of The Spirit For Kids: 9 Simple Ideas To Teach

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Explaining the fruit of the spirit for kids ensures they follow the values of Christianity all through their life. Parents need to make their children understand what it is and its significance in the formative years itself for a productive, happy, and content life. Also, following the teachings of Christianity helps them practice good qualities and evolve spiritually.

We bring you this post to help you explain the nine attributes or fruits to your children to have a joyful life ahead.

What Is The Purpose Of The Fruit Of The Spirit?

The term “fruit of the Spirit” is found in Galatians 5:22-23, where Paul talks about how different life is and how better life could be when lived following the Holy Spirit. The following are the exact verses:

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things, there is no law.” The nine fruits of the Spirit are

1. Love
2. Patience
3. Joy
4. Peace
5. Kindness
6. Goodness
7. Faithfulness
8. Gentleness
9. Self-control

These verses help us understand who God is better and show us what our lives look like when Holy Spirit has an active role in our lives. The benefits of learning more about these fruits are not just for ourselves but also for those around us.

The nine qualities listed in the Fruit of the Spirit verses help us improve various facets of our lives to evolve into better spiritual beings from the purely physical bodies. Thereby, we also learn to distance ourselves from materialistic wants and desires and open our hearts and souls to the love of God, who fills us with everlasting joy.

How Should You Explain The Fruit Of The Spirit To Kids?

It is vital for children to memorize the verses and put them into practice in their everyday lives.

When the child does not understand what they stand to achieve when they follow a guideline, they are not motivated to follow it. Hence, it is important to explain the purpose of the fruit of the Spirit in ways that they can understand and follow.

Typically, when you look at a Bible class that teaches these concepts, teachers may use music, cards, or other extra resources, such as actual fruits, to discuss these nine qualities.

While it is important for children to learn and memorize the nine qualities, a hands-on approach works wonders in teaching them how to apply these in their lives.

Here are a few simple ideas you can use to teach the fruit of the Spirit to your children effectively.

1. Show it in action

The best way to teach a child something is to show them how it is done. This holds good for the fruit of the Spirit lessons too.

For example, love is one of the fruits of the Spirit mentioned in the verses. Explain to your child how you love them and they love you back and how it makes you both feel happy. Tell them how this feeling must not be restricted to just family but everyone around them as well, including creatures of every kind.

Maybe you can try petting a dog and let your child see how the animal reacts to the loving gesture. You can also explain to them how God loves them unconditionally and is most pleased when they show the same kind of love to everyone and everything around them.

Making a ‘fruit of the Spirit chart’ is another way to encourage kids to practice vital values. An anonymous blogger and mother of four shares, “A fruit of the spirit chart is a nice way to introduce these words (acts of love and good works). I used this with my first two children. When we did the chart, they got fruits to put on it when we saw it in their actions. Once a row is filled up, they’ll get a reward. Maybe a few chocolate chips. Maybe a new book. What’s beautiful is that when I look for ways to reward my child’s character, I am amazed at how kind and thoughtful these special little people are (i).”

Quick tip

Whenever your child witnesses an act depicting one of the fruits of the Spirit, do point it out promptly so they will better remember it. Slowly, they will start recognizing and identifying the same on their own.

2. Reiterate it

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A lesson stays in mind when it is reiterated and reinforced. With the fruit of the Spirit qualities, the child learns how to implement these fruits in life when they see them applied in various situations. This helps cement the idea in their minds and teaches them how to display these qualities in all aspects of their lives.

For example, patience is a trait that helps us handle stressful situations in life. You can teach them how patiently waiting until Christmas to break open their piggy bank ensures they have saved enough money to buy themselves a bigger present than they could have at the beginning of the year.

3. Help them practice it

Children may come across plenty of situations to practice these qualities in their everyday lives. Therefore, teach them early. Then, they can leverage every such opportunity to practice and show one or many of the important qualities in the situation.

For example, you can demonstrate faithfulness by talking to them about how we expect our family and friends to stick with us through thick and thin, regardless of the situation. Help them see how they rely upon faithful friends and trust them. Teach them to be faithful to everyone and introduce them to the idea of being faithful to Christ and following his teachings regardless of whether anyone’s supervising their actions. Teach them goodness by showing generosity and compassion towards those less fortunate than them.

4. Make it a part of your life.

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These fruits must become a part of your life so that the child can learn by watching the family practice these values every day. Make sure to point out to the little one how you display these qualities in every walk of life. It is also vital to help your child understand why you are doing so.

For example, teach them about gentleness as you comfort them when they come to you with a cut or bruise. Talk to them about how a gentle touch can be soothing to someone who is upset or scared and how it can help alleviate the suffering of another. Talk about the soothing power that even a simple touch has. Talk to them about how forgiveness can lighten their mind and help them move forward.

5. Teach them through pretend play

One of the most interesting pastimes of children is acting out various scenarios of life. Create a scene where you can demonstrate one or more fruits of the Spirit at once and explain to the child why it is important to act in a particular way. You can even pick some stories from the Bible and enact them.

For example, the concept of joy can be elusive to a child, but you can show them how not to lose inner joy no matter what the situation is through pretend play. Create a scene with two characters, both facing adversity. One allows the adversity to affect them deeply and loses their peace. The other holds on to their inner joy and thus breezes through the bad situation, emerging from it unscathed and unaffected. Teach your child how the inner joy that originates from faith in the Lord cannot be eroded no matter what difficulties come our way. You can also use pretend play to teach values like honesty and responsibility.

6. Use stories to communicate

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Stories can be a powerful medium when introducing important life lessons to kids. Use stories that underline the qualities that you want your child to imbibe. You can pick out their favorite characters to use in your stories and explain what you mean.

For example, superhero cartoons or movies may offer great opportunities to explain what you mean by peace and how peace can help resolve conflict in the best way. Tell your child how violent reactions or strong emotions mess up matters for them in delicate situations by showing how their favorite characters handle such issues calmly and peacefully. Teach them how God, who wields unlimited powers, believes only in peaceful action even while addressing violence. You can also teach other values like gratitude and humility through stories.

7. Create opportunities

You may come up with real-life scenarios for the child to put these qualities into practice. Then, while they are at it, you can guide and help them correct their actions.

For example, use kindness activities for kids, such as visiting the closest nursing home or shelter for the homeless, and make it a family tradition. You may celebrate birthdays or anniversaries or donate something for such people. The child can experience firsthand how a small gesture of selflessness or a kind word can bring joy and contentment to everyone. Tell them about how showing kindness and mercy to all lets us respect every creation of God.

8. Correct them

Children will make mistakes as they grow and encounter people and come across various situations. When they make a mistake, you may teach them the value of the fruit of the Spirit instead of merely rebuking them. Talk to them about which of these qualities they should have exhibited and how it would have helped in the situation.

For example, if they get into a fight at school that ends in fisticuffs, you can explain to the child how self-control in such a situation could have safeguarded them and also the other person, even if the latter did not hold back. Teach them how it takes great power, purity of mind, graciousness, and inner strength to be in control of a tough situation.

Do remember

Ensure your child knows to balance the teachings with the modern-day application. They should practice self-control, but it is equally important to know how to defend themselves when threatened by someone.

9. Appreciate them for good work

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A lesson for children always works better and stays in the mind when they get appreciation. When they do something good, appreciate them and explain how they have displayed one of the fruits of the Spirit. Tell them how demonstrating these qualities has a ripple effect, prompting others to do the same, thus creating a society filled with positive people. When you encourage positive behavior in children, they bloom into beautiful adults.

For example, you can appreciate your child’s goodness when they help someone carry grocery bags to the car or volunteer to help a fellow student with homework. Good deeds should be celebrated, and they should be commended. Talk about how God has been good to you and your family and how you say thanks for it by being good to others.

Infographic: What Does the Bible Teach About Different Fruits Of Spirit?

Teaching your children about ‘Fruits of Spirit’ is important as it will help them grow both spiritually and morally. It is also essential to let your children know the Biblical meaning of these fruits. Share this infographic on some Bible verses corresponding to these ‘Fruits of the Spirit’ with your children and enlighten them.

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Singing along to this lively and engaging song about the Fruit of the Spirit will provide a joyful and captivating preschool worship experience.

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