225+ Romantic Things To Do For Your Girlfriend

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You are madly in love with your girlfriend, but until you express it, she might not know its depth. When expressing love, elaborate gifts are not significant. Rather, it is small gestures that can do wonders. So, here is a list of things to do for your girlfriend that can make her feel loved and pampered.

Your small efforts can strengthen your bond and get you loads of hugs and kisses in return. To keep the romance alive, try adding small, thoughtful gestures into your daily routine. A simple compliment, a shared joke, or a surprise outing can strengthen your bond. These little moments help create lasting memories and deepen your relationship. So, pick one or two things as ideas to surprise her every day. The list includes a mix of conventional and unconventional things that effectively reflect your feelings.

225+ Things To Do For Your Girlfriend

Check out some interesting things to do to make your girlfriend smile and feel special.

Romantic Things To Do For Your Girlfriend

Romance should be at the core of your relationship. Keep the spark alive by doing some of these lovely things for her.

1. Take Her Out On A Date
   Dress up, book a table at her favorite restaurant, and pick her up in style. Make it a perfect dinner date that she’ll remember for years. 
2. Make Her The Center Of Your World
   Take her outside someday and show her just how much she means to you. Make her feel she’s the center of your universe by singing a song for her or gifting her the best outfit.
3. Express Your Feelings On A Local Newspaper
   Communicate your feelings for her in a local newspaper. Many have announcements sections where people can leave messages. Draw her attention to it afterward by circling your message.
4. Be Supportive In Public
   Support her opinions and views in public. Treat her nicely in public, and it will strengthen her confidence.
5. Indulge In PDA
   Show how proud and happy you are to be with her by holding her hands or sitting close to each other in public places.
6. Tell Her She Is Perfect
   Tell her she is perfect as she is. Nothing about her needs to change. That’ll make her the happiest.
7. Acknowledge Her Efforts
   Make her feel loved, seen, and appreciated by acknowledging her efforts. It can be something small that she does. But saying thank you in your best voice will show her you care.
8. Stop Her And Put Her Hair Back Her Ears
   Take a moment and stop her. When she asks why, gently put some of her hair strands back against her ears. It will make her feel very special.
9. Compliment Her When She’s Not At Her Best
   A study published in the Western Journal of Communication states that compliments in romantic contexts bring higher levels of relationship satisfaction for both men and women. Additionally, women tend to be more aware of compliments than men (1). So, compliment and let her know you care about and like her.
10. Hold Her Hands
    Just hold her hands and look her in the eyes. Don’t say anything. Just experience her.
11. Call Or Text Her Out Of The Blue
    Whether it’s 3 am or 3 pm, send her a sweet text saying ‘I love you’ or ‘I miss you.’ Always keep the communication between you and her open to express your feelings for her.
12. Surprise Her At The Workplace
    Is an important project at work keeping her away from you lately? Give her a surprise visit with a rose and her favorite pastry.
13. Dedicate A Social Media Post To Her
    Express your love and devotion for her in a social media post. She will be charmed by this expression.
14. Serenade Her
    Play a romantic song and sway around her side. Mouth the lyrics as you do so.
15. Buy Her Flowers
    Sending her flowers would bring an instant smile and glow on her face.
16. Kiss Her
    A study by communication experts shows that kissing can enhance satisfaction in romantic relationships and help reduce stress and susceptibility to depression (2). So, kiss her unexpectedly or while you are chatting.
17. Tell Her She Is A Superwoman
    Make her feel great about herself by telling her she is a superwoman. It will bring a big smile to her face.
18. Watch The Sun Go Down
    Spend a romantic evening watching the sunset together from the right spot.
19. Plan A Surprise Picnic
    Plan a surprise picnic at her favorite park with her favorite snacks and a cozy blanket. It’s a sweet way to show you care and creates a romantic setting for you both to enjoy.
20. Take A Boat Ride
    Nothing spells romance as nicely as sailing on a boat together on the gentle currents of the river.
21. Smell Great And Sit Near Her
    Have a bath and put on some good fragrance. Then, sit close to her and talk intimately.
22. Write Her Poetry
    It doesn’t have to be a literary masterpiece as long as it’s sincere.
23. Set The Mood
    Some good music, a flavored candle, and a bottle of wine to set the tone for a romantic evening together will go a long way.
24. Recreate How You First Met
    Take her back to how you met or your first date for some nostalgia and romance.
25. Stay Up All Night Talking To Her
    Whether it’s on the phone or in person, talking to her all night shows her that you’ll never get bored of her.
26. Tell Her She Is Your Favorite Conversation Partner
    Tell her that she is the best conversation partner you have ever had and that she always knows what to say.
27. Listen To Her
    Try to understand her by spending some time listening to her ideas and views. Romance is rooted in deep understanding and listening.
28. Make A GIF And Send It To Her
    Create a GIF of yourself and share it with her. Be as candid as you can.
29. Personalize The Gift You Buy Her
    Put more thought into ordinary gifts like flowers and books by personalizing them. Buy what she loves to make them unique.
30. Celebrate Your Holidays
    Have special days of the month or year when you both watch a movie or go on a drive or do anything you both like.
31. Put a Handwritten Note In Her Diary
    Write a loving message and keep it in her diary. It would make her day when she sees it.
32. Compliment Her Smile
    Tell her that she has the sweetest smile. Nothing in the world compares to it.
33. Tell Her You Love How She Laughs
    Tell her there’s nothing better than watching her laugh over things that amuse her.
34. Wear A Fragrance She Loves
    Trust us. She would be very pleased sensing that you wore a cologne that she personally recommends.
35. Apologize For Something Wrong You Did
    If you did something you regret, apologize for it. Admit you were wrong and you sincerely want to make up for it.
36. Volunteer At An Animal Shelter
    Have fun and make a difference to some cute animals together.
37. Wear Something She Loves
    Wear an outfit she loves, even if it means you look a bit awkward. Surprise her by wearing it for some time.
38. Tell Her A Story Out Of The Blue
    Out of nowhere, tell her about the story of when you two met. Be specific and share all those things about her that you liked.
39. Deliver Her Lunch
    Buy or make lunch for her if she is away and deliver it to her place in person. She will love this surprise.
40. Tell Her She Is Your Best Friend
    Apart from telling her that you love her, let her know that you see her as her closest friend, with whom you feel truly safe.
41. Save A Photo Of Her As Your Phone Wallpaper
    You can keep her or your couple’s picture on your phone wallpaper—a nice gesture she will appreciate.
42. Choose Her, Every Time
    Whenever a conflict occurs, and you have to choose from work, family, friends, and your girlfriend, pick your girlfriend.
43. Read Her Poetry
    If you know her favorite poet or poem, then bonus points for this incredibly romantic gesture.
44. Light Candles
    Close the blinds and pull the curtains. Then, when it’s dark, light up some candles and have an intimate conversation with her.
45. Write Her Words of Affirmation
    Write words of positive affirmations for her. Sentences on how much she has achieved in life and how proud you are of her will make her swell with happiness.
46. Call A Radio Station And Dedicate A Song To Her
    Make sure you’re both listening to the radio when you dedicate a song to her. And find her all smiles.
47. Commit To Her In A Significant Way
    Propose to her in a romantic way that will sweep her off her feet.
48. Introduce Her As Your Partner
    Instead of just calling her your girlfriend, introduce her as the love of your life or partner. This small but powerful gesture will assure her of your commitment and loyalty.
49. Introduce Her To Your Family
    In case you haven’t already done it, introduce her as the love of your life to your family.
50.  Build Her Something
    It could be something as trivial as a bracelet or something more intricate like a jewelry box. Build it yourself and make it a romantic surprise.
51. Remind Her How Amazing She Is
    Reinforcing how much your girlfriend means to you often will make her like you even more.
52. Tell Her She Will Be Great Mother
    Tell her that she will become a great mother and that you both will raise children who will make you proud in life.
53. Show Her You Trust Her
    Show her you’re not insecure by trusting her around her male friends and colleagues, even if you’re worried about how they feel.
54. Send Her Affectionate Voicemails
    Leave cute and loving voice messages for her on her phone. It will always make it smile.
55. Be Excited For Her
    Whether it’s a good report at work or losing some weight, you have to be ecstatic about her every milestone.
56. Be A Gentleman To Her
    While it may seem obvious, being a gentleman can let her know you have a lot of character.
57. Keep Surprising Her
    Whether it’s a surprise visit at her workplace or a hidden card in her bag, keep her guessing as to what sweet thing you’ll do next.

Kyle Nutt, a YouTuber, vlogs about his surprise visit to his girlfriend. He booked a last-minute flight, knowing it would make her happy. His message is to spend as much time with the people you love. He says, “It is moments that make life so memorable. Moments that are created simply by just doing and not worrying about only having so much time (i).”

58. Send Her a Handmade Card
    Explore your creativity and express your love through a handmade card for her.
59. Celebrate Events In Her Life
    Celebrate her work anniversary, her pet’s birthday or any other event in her life.
60.  Be Her Confidante
    Let her know you’re always there for her, and she can tell you anything.
61. Keep Reminding Her She’s Beautiful
    It never hurts to tell your girlfriend one more time that she’s beautiful.
62. Write I Love You In Different Languages
    Write the three words of love in as many languages as you can and keep it somewhere she can notice.
63. Tell Her That You See A Future With Her
    Let your girlfriend know that you take your relationship seriously and want to spend your future with her.
64. Hug Her
    Hug her for at least 30 seconds. It’s the sweetest gesture of love.

Creative Things To Do For Your Girlfriend

Whether you are in a long-term relationship or are just beginning a new one, it is always important to show your love for having her in your life. Here are some creative things you can do for your girlfriend to strengthen your bond.  

65.  Give Her Coupons
    Get some coupon codes from her favorite restaurants or shopping websites and surprise her with them.
66. Paste Cute Messages On The Mirror
    Get some sticky notes and write loving messages for her. Paste them on her mirror.
67. Leave Her Cute Notes
    Write cute notes for her and leave them all around the room to cheer her up. If you know she is having a hard time at work, leave small notes with words of encouragement to uplift her mood.
68. Make Plans That Involve Spending Time
    Make plans with her that involve spending a great deal of time together. You don’t need to shell out a lot of money to spend quality time.
69. Do Something Unconventional
    Break the cycle of what you both used to do. Try taking an impromptu road trip or a long walk in the rain with her.
70. Cook with Her
    According to experts, cooking with your partner can enhance cooperation, communication, and overall relationship (3). Try making a new dish or meal with her. If she loves cooking, let her guide you

Blogger Khalid Al Ameri, says, “When it comes to cooking in our house, my wife and I have always cooked together. The kitchen has now become a place where we can connect, work as a team, laugh at each other, and enjoy the food even more because the result was achieved together. I truly believe that it has played a huge role in strengthening our marriage. It is pretty much the same as anything in life, how do you feel doing all the great work and your partner just sits around all the time enjoying the benefits of it? Things are always more meaningful when done together, it shows how strong you are a single unit (ii).”

71. Write 50 Things You Love About Her
    Make a list of 50 adorable things about her and share it with her. Watch her face light up with the loveliest smile.
72. Surprise Her
    Remember any small detail about her? It could be her favorite wine or those charming anklets she used to wear. Surprise her by taking her out or buying her what she likes.
73. Organize a Small Get Together
    Have some supplies ready for a sweet and short get-together with her, some friends, and yourself.
74. Spread Flower Petals On Her Bed
    Make her bedroom an irresistibly romantic place by scattering some flower petals on her bed.
75. Write Her A Love Letter
    Pour out your heart and soul in a letter. You can take inspiration from some sample love letters for girlfriend and add your unique flair.
76. Customize A Gift For Her
    It could be a blanket with her favorite cartoon character or a coffee mug with a quote. Either way, it should be a gift that’s unique for her.
77. Plan A Romantic Getaway
    Organize a romantic surprise weekend for just the two of you at a place she likes.
78. Schedule A Spa Day
    Plan a couple’s spa date to unwind together.
79. Make Her A Scrapbook
    Use pictures of both of you and add some doodles and quotes to make her a scrapbook.
80. Create A Playlist
    Create a playlist with all the songs that make her feel good.
81. Mimic A Rock Song
    Mimic a song that resonates with her. Act like you both are the singers and have a great time.
82. Style Her Hair
    You can help her with a tricky hairstyle, such as a French braid or pinned-up hair.
83. Apply A Face Mask
    Pamper her by whipping up a DIY face mask and applying it gently on her face.
84. Paint Her Nails
    Help her paint her nails. Bonus points if you can do fun patterns and colors.
85. Create a Fun Photo Challenge
    Set up a fun photo challenge where you both take pictures of specific themes throughout the week. You can even choose to take photos of each other. At the end of the week, share your photos and enjoy a fun discussion about them.
86. Make Up A Stupid Song
    Create a stupid yet funny song. Sing it to her and watch her laugh.
87. Leave Her Cryptic Notes
    Coded messages will be fun for her to decode, especially if you leave fun clues from your relationship.
88. Get Her A Portrait
    Find a local artist and get her portrait painted. Give it to her on a special occasion, such as Valentine’s Day.

89. Start A Hobby Together
    It could be anything from painting to pottery to learning a new instrument. However, choose satisfying and stress-free activities, as studies show they can strengthen the bond between couples (4).
90. Give Her A Nickname
    Spend some time exploring pet names that resonate with her personality. Find a good one and call her using it.
91. Perform Stand Up Comedy
    There are plenty of clubs that allow newcomers to perform short sets. Do one for her and let her laugh her head off.
92. Act Your Favorite Movie/TV Scenes
    No matter how bad your acting skills are, it is bound to be a fun activity for both of you.
93. Doodle On Her
    Draw cute cartoons or write small notes on her wrist or cheek with a marker.
94. Go Wine Tasting
    Go wine tasting and discover various kinds of wines together. You may enjoy a couple of drinks with her.
95. Photoshop Her Pictures
    Make her pictures funny or attractive, and she will still appreciate it.
96. Write Her A Song
    If you can compose and perform a song that’s only for your girlfriend, it will make her feel special and appreciated.
97. Show Up For Her When She Feels Low
    Give her some company when she is feeling depressed. Ask them to share their feelings and listen to them intently.
98. Bake A Sweet Treat
    Learn a simple recipe for baking a dessert and surprise her with it. Have a great time tasting and eating it together.
99. Set Up A Treasure Hunt
    Make her unearth your gift by setting up a series of clues. It can be indoors or outdoors. The experience will be truly special.
100. Get Matching Jewelry
     If you’re not ready to propose yet, it’s a romantic idea to get matching rings, bracelets, or a locket.
101. Pack Her A Meal
     Make a warm meal she loves and pack it with your hands. Put it in her bag along with a special note.
102. Share Earphones When Travelling
     When both of you are on a long commute, give her a cord of your earphones. Listen to songs during the long ride together.
103. Book Her A Fitness Class
     If she is a fitness freak, book her a fitness class nearby. She will love this gesture.
104. Give Her A Small Gift That She Desires
     It could be anything from a tote bag to a lipstick or a shrug. Give it to her and show your care.
105. Make Her Favorite Celeb Message Her
     Find the celeb she admires on social media and request them to send her a short message. This may take time, so prepare it beforehand.
106. Leave Her A Snack Or Candy Bar In Her Bag
     It will be helpful if your girlfriend is in a rush to get to work or has a sweet tooth.
107. Stargaze Together
     Pack some blankets and head out for stargazing. Ensure to have a fun playlist with you.
108.  Create Art Together
     Get an empty canvas and see how far your art skills go. Have fun with colors and paints.
109. Build A Blanket Fort With Her
     Grab some sheets, heavy books, and pins. Now tap into your inner child and have fun building forts on your bed.
110. Paste Her Toothbrush
     If you both get ready at almost the same time, put paste on her toothbrush. It’s an adorable gesture.
111. Schedule A Time To Practice Something Together
     Create a to-do list with her and schedule some time daily to practice any activity with her. It can be a sport or any hobby you both like.
112. Pick Her A Snack
     Pick up a cookie, snack, or an ice-cream she loves but can never find the time to relish. Surprise her with this small treat.
113.  Buy Her Something Rare
     It could be something that’s not available in your country or a collectible.
114. Write I Love You In Different Languages
     Write the three words of love in as many languages as you can and keep it somewhere she can notice.
115. Take Professional Photos With Her
     Hire a professional photographer to capture some stunning photos together. They will always serve as a reminder of your love.
116. Get Her A Comfortable Pair Of Slippers
     A comfortable pair of slippers will keep her warm and remind you of your boundless affection for her.

Fun Things To Do For Your Girlfriend

The everyday routine is part of life, but that doesn’t mean your relationship has to be dull and boring. Try these fun ideas for things to do with your girlfriend and keep the excitement alive!

117. Play A Board Game
     Get to know her over a board game. Use a classic game or try out a new one.
118. Do Something She Likes
     Take her out and do something she is fond of. It could be visiting museums or watching movies on date nights.
119. Bring Her Breakfast In Bed
     Cook a small meal with love, and take it up to her when she wakes up.
120. Play Tourist with Her
     Take her out and explore a few local landmarks. You both will surely have an enjoyable time.
121. Get Matching Outfits
     While this might seem cheesy, it can be funny and cute.
122. Cook Her A Meal
     Are you in the mood for pampering her? You don’t need to be a master chef to cook a meal. Prepare anything that she loves to gorge on after a tiring day.
123. Carry Her Upstairs When She Is Tired
     If she’s been partying in heels all night, carry her to her room when it’s over. She would thank you from the bottom of her heart for it.
124. Throw Her A Surprise Party
     Plan a surprise party for her with all her close friends and family members. You can do it on her birthday or any special occasion.
125. Go Skiing
     If the weather is bad but you want to do something with her, take the slopes. She would have a great experience.
126. Practice Meditation Together
     Ask her to join you on your meditation practice. Do some breathing exercises together and help her calm her mind.
127. Switch off Your Phone
     Switch off your phone if you get too many work-related notifications when you are with her. This simple act will show her how much you want to spend quality time with her.
128. Go To A Concert
     She might want to go to an upcoming concert. Buy her the tickets and fulfill her desire.
129. Keep Old Ticket Stubs
     Show her you’ve kept old movie, museum, and concert ticket stubs to show how much those interactions mean to you.
130. Do That Thing You Have Always Talked Of
     Is there anything you both have been meaning to do for a long time but couldn’t? If so, show her this time, you’ll make it possible.
131. Send Her Postcards
     When you’re apart from each other, send her postcards. It’s an old but sweet gesture.
132. Order Lunch For Her
     Send her a lunchbox at her workplace so she doesn’t have to go to the cafeteria or pack one herself.
133. Play With Her Hair
     It’s an understated yet the most loving gesture you can do.
134. Play A Prank On Her And Record It
     As long as it’s not cruel or scary, a prank can be fun to watch in retrospect.
135. Give Her a Piggyback Ride
     You can give her a fun piggyback ride anytime. Either prank her with it or do it while chatting.
136. Order Her Favorite Starbucks Drink
     Order her the Starbucks drink she loves, even if it’s a very specific order.
137. Joke Together
     Have a bunch of the funniest jokes in your phone. Use them to make her laugh anytime.
138. Buy Her Some Accessories
     Whether it’s cartoon hats or goofy sunglasses, any fun accessories will give you a laugh.
139. Swap Clothes
     While this might not work if you’re different in size, it will make it even funnier!
140. Go Skating
     Take her to the local park and bring out those skates. Neither of you needs to be an expert, but skating together surely will make both of you happy.

141. Go To The Zoo
     A visit to the local zoo can be enjoyable. You can take pictures with the animals.
142. Give (Or Receive) A Makeover
     You can both give makeovers to each other, from clothes to hair, for fun.
143. Check Out Local Events
     Instead of prominent museums, take her to a small arts festival to spend quality time with her.
     
     Quick tip

     You could also bake a cake together or make some cupcakes and donate them to a children’s home.
144. Play Video Games Together
     Playing some good old-fashioned co-op games for couples with your girlfriend can be a great idea. You can even choose one-on-one video games and be competitive about it if it’s done lightheartedly.
145. Take A Hot Air Balloon Ride
     Have a great adventure with a hot air balloon ride. Don’t forget to click plenty of photos.
146. Do Something Thrilling
     From roller coaster rides to adventure sports, do something that is both terrifying and exhilarating.
147. Hike With Her
     Explore nature with her on a hiking trail. There’s nothing better than hiking with the one you love.
148. Build a Campfire
     Gather around a campfire in your backyard. Huddle close with her and let her experience your affection.
149. Have A Favorite Vacation Spot
     While there may be a lot to see globally, find a spot that you both love and travel back there.
150. Get Her Car Washed
     If you think she has no time to wash her car, get it done for her. She will be relieved and pleased.
151. Take A Dance Class Together
     Another great way to spend quality time with your partner is by indulging in some affectionate dancing together. You both will have loads of fun.
152. Re-watch a Show She Hasn’t Watched
     Re-watch a show or an episode with her without telling her that you have already watched it. Act as if you are as excited about watching it as she is.
153. Let Her Have The Last Piece Of Food
     Be it the last piece of bacon, french fry, or pizza, let her have it.
154. Call Her At Her Workplace
     Chat with her for a few minutes while she is working. Tell her that she’ll slay all deadlines.
155. Play Any Game
     Think of any game like a scavenger hunt or Would You Rather and play it with her. It will instantly brighten her mood.
156.  Pull Her For An Impromptu Cuddle
     Make her day memorable by pulling her unexpectedly and cuddling her for a few minutes.
157. Leave Her A Tiny Gift
     If she is packing off to go somewhere, leave a tiny gift that’ll remind her of you, like your picture with her in her suitcase.
158. Reminisce About Childhood
     Share your childhood memories with her and ask her to do the same. It will also make you learn about her better.
159. Feed Her
     Bring food and feed her with a spoon or your hands. It will make her blush and excite her at the same time.
160. Help Her Around The House
     When you’re over at her place, try to help out with chores or anything she wants you to do.
161. Hit The Beach
     Go explore a quaint beach on a sunny afternoon. Walk hand in hand on the soft sand.
162. Pick Her A Snack
     Pick up a cookie, snack, or an ice-cream she loves but can never find the time to relish. Surprise her with this small treat.
163. Hire A Carriage
     This might need some planning. But if you want to give her a fairytale-like experience, hire a horse-drawn carriage and go sightseeing with her.
164. Discover Her Humor
     Get to know her humor and what sets her mood. You may revisit some funny moments or engage in pleasurable activities with her to discover what makes her laugh.
165. Let Her Teach You Something
     You might already know what she is good at. Ask her to teach you that skill and listen attentively.

Sentimental Things To Do For Your Girlfriend

When it comes to making your girlfriend feel loved, even the smallest gestures can brighten her day. So why not use these sentimental things to do for your girlfriend and show her just how much she means to you?

166. Frame Her Picture
     Find a photo of hers that you love and get it framed. She will love keeping it on her bedside.
167. Help Her With Her Chores
     Finish a chore she’s dreading. It could be anything from picking up her laundry to cleaning the house.
168. Buy Her Something She Needs
     Whether it’s a ketchup bottle or batteries for her TV remote, the next time you’re out shopping, pick up a few things you know she needs.
169. Compliment Her On The Little Things
     Sweet compliments for girls could include anything from her handwriting to how she gets ready so quickly. Let her know you notice her.
170. Know Her Goals And Praise Them
     When she makes progress toward some milestone, acknowledge it and praise her.
171. Care For Her When She’s Sick
     Make her soup or hot tea and take care of her till she gets better.
172. Notice When She Changes Her Appearance
     Notice the smallest changes in her appearance and tell her she looks gorgeous.
173. Show Her Off To The World
     A little bragging is not only healthy but also cute. You can do it occasionally.
174. Look At Old Photos Together
     Pull up some old photos of yourself with her and look at them together. Remark on how you both have changed or evolved.
175. Talk to Her Honestly
     Take out some time and share your honest feelings about different things. It would mean a lot to her.
176. Try To Explore Her Interests
     From watching her favorite shows to listening to her favorite bands, try understanding why she likes them so you can share that passion.
177. Put Her Comfort Before Your Own
     Whenever you are outside, make sure she is comfortable. Ask her how she feels or if she wants to leave.
178. Text Her Good Morning And Good Night
     Good morning and good night texts will let her know how much you think and care about her.

Blogger Eliane L. White, says, “I like morning messages, especially from a romantic partner, it excites me, and makes me want to hold them in the morning. Helps me release endorphins, and desire them during that moment. It’s sweet. Receiving morning messages means that you are in someone’s mind, and they chose to let you know that they are thinking about you, it’s caring, sexy even (iii).”

179. Remember The Anniversaries
     Celebrate anniversaries of everything, from your first date to your first kiss. Nothing can be more romantic than this.
180. Say To Her That She’s The Only One
     Tell her that no matter what happens, she is the woman with whom you want to spend the rest of your life.
181. Let Her Know She Is Important
     Show her that she’s your priority, no matter what.
182. Buy Her Pajamas
     It shows you like her when she is the most comfortable.
183. Motivate Her
     Give her a pep talk and remind her that she is the most capable woman you have seen. It will uplift her, and she will feel special.
     
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     If your girl loves experimenting with her hair and hair color, take her to a premium salon for a luxurious hair spa, or get her the trending balayage!
184. Care For Her When She Is Menstruating
     If her periods are painful, do your best to comfort her. Provide her a warm bottle of water or her favorite snacks and chocolate.
185. Give Her A Massage
     With the right incense, oil, and music, it can be an incredibly romantic experience.
186. Check That Her Phone Is Charged
     If she is busy, take her phone and see if its charged. Also, check other electronics she uses regularly for the same.
187. Tell People Funny Stories About Her
     Your girlfriend will appreciate you if she hears nothing but good things and funny stories about her from you when you are at a social gathering.
188. Massage Her Back
     If her work demands standing or walking a lot, give her a good back massage. She will love it.
189. Set Up A Girl’s Night Out With Her Friends
     Plan and send your girlfriend and her friends on a fun night out to show you can still make her have fun even if you’re not there.
190. Plant Romantic Cues All Over The Laptop
     Make sure she can’t go from her homepage to her wallpaper without seeing cute notes and jokes from you.
191. Take Time To Listen To Her
     Try to understand her by spending some time listening to her ideas and views. Romance is rooted in deep understanding and listening.
192. Let Her Cut Your Hair
     It will demonstrate your trust in her abilities and taste.
193. Oil And Shampoo Her Hair
     It can be incredibly relaxing and fun if you do it right.
194. Give Up Bad Habits Together
     Work together as a team to quit bad habits. Provide her with emotional support if she faces a hard time giving up some unwanted habits.
195. Visit A Secondhand Bookstore
     Visit a secondhand bookstore together and unearth some literary gems.
196. Shop With Her
     Visit malls or nearby shopping spots with her and have a great time.
197. Help Her Tackle Something At Work
     If there is something she has been struggling with at work, help her navigate it. Understand her situation and make a battle plan.
198. Make An Effort To Connect With Her Family
     Consciously try to connect with her family and treat them like your own.
199. Have A Special Song That You Both Relate To
     Do you have a special song as a couple? The song can be your cue to hit the dance floor and stir loving memories whenever you hear it.
200. Be Supportive Of Her Hobbies
     Whether it’s cooking, arts, or music, you should support your girlfriend’s hobbies and take an interest in them.
201. Be There For Her Family
     Whenever her family is hit by a crisis, make sure you’re there for her and them.
202. Know Her Habits
     If she forgets to switch off a light or keep a bottle next to her bed when she sleeps, do it for her. It shows how well you know her.
203. Support Her Career
     It goes without saying, but you should always be supportive of her career.
204. Read A Book She Loves
     Read a book simply because she loves it. Afterward, discuss it with her.
205. Have A Special Spot Close By
     It could be a picnic spot or a picturesque one on a hiking trail—try and find a place that’s special to both of you and romantic at the same time.
206. Do The Heavy Lifting For A Trip
     Have you both meant to go on a trip that requires a lot of planning? Do the heavy lifting by deciding the right destination, booking accommodation, meals, and travel.
207. Give Her Space To Grow
     If she has bad habits or faults, give her time to grow out of them and be patient.
208. Know Intricate Details About Her
     Whether it’s a phobia or an allergy, your girlfriend will appreciate it if you know the tiniest details about her.
209. Don’t Complain When Things Aren’t Going Your Way
     By this, we mean you should not protest when she wants to try a cuisine you don’t like or go for a movie you don’t want to watch. Do it for her happiness.
210. Make A Travel Bucket List
     Sit with her and make a travel bucket list. Include all those places she wishes to visit.
211.  Be Protective Of Her
     If you see a friend or coworker being hostile to her, intervene in the situation. However, do not come off as overprotective.
212.  Let Her Sleep In
     Sometimes, all she may need is plenty of rest. If you think it’s true, don’t bother her when she’s sleeping. Let her wake up naturally.
213.  Involve Her In Big Decisions
     Whether it’s a new car or a career change, taking your girlfriend’s input will make her feel valued and appreciated.
214. Buy Her Lingerie
     Intensify your intimate bonding by buying her some beautiful lingerie in her favorite color.
215. Comment On Her Favorite Dresses
     Find out which dresses she loves and when she wears them, give nice comments on them repeatedly.
216. Buy Her Family Gifts
     You can earn brownie points with your girlfriend by giving her family surprises and gifts on their birthdays or anniversaries.
217. Take An Interest In Her Day
     If you did not get a chance to meet or talk during the day, ask her how her day was.
218. Open Up To Her
     Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable in front of your girlfriend and confide in her.
219. Allow Her To Vent Her Fears
     Ask her to share her fears and challenges. If she is angry, be supportive and listen to her reasons.
220. Forgive And Forget
     When she makes a mistake or upsets you, let it go and forget about it.
221. Be Courteous To Her Friends
     Her friend’s opinions can often have a significant impact on your relationship, so make sure you’re in their good books.
222. Stargaze Together
     Pack some blankets and head out for stargazing. Ensure to have a fun playlist with you.
223. Keep A Picture Of Her In Your Wallet
     It is a classic move that men have done for ages. Let her know that you have a picture of her in your wallet.
224. Help Her Care For Her Pet
     If she isn’t in town for whatever reason and needs help with her pets, let her know you’re available.
225. Clean The Bathroom Sink
     Bathroom sinks are the filthiest places in a house. Clean it for her and see how much she loves you for this gesture.
226. Don’t Be Judgmental
     Whether it’s her current flaws or something from her past, never judge her or make her feel ashamed for those things.
227. Make More Space In Her Closet
     Take a look at her closet and see if there’s room for more space so she can keep her things better and more organized.
228. Get Her A Pet
     Talk about having a pet. If she seems excited, you may find one and raise it with her. It will sharpen your bond.

Infographic: Everyday Gestures

Romantic gestures need not be mundane, nor do they require an extensive plan. Even small gestures that you show throughout the day could indicate how much you love her. Not sure what to do? Our infographic below will list the small yet thoughtful actions that reflect how much she means to you.

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Illustration: Sweet And Romantic Things To Do For Your Girlfriend

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