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On your first date, you had jitters in your stomach; when you proposed to her, your heart skipped a beat, and when you married her, you felt on top of the world. But, as time passes, you may run out of ways to romance your wife and also may not be expressive as you were, though your love and respect for her may increase. However, romance can be instilled through the simple day-to-day things that you both might be doing together. It’s the small, everyday actions that deepen emotional intimacy and bring partners closer together. Wondering what these simple yet super-effective ways to romance your wife are? Delve into this post as we present you with some of the best ways that could help bring out your romantic side with your wife.
Key Pointers
- Romance can grow over time, provided you pay attention to simple things you and your wife do together daily.
- Going for a walk with her, making her favorite dinner, taking her shopping, and holding her in public are some simple ways to express your love for her.
- Make her feel special and bring her closer to you by trying more sweet and special gestures shared below.
29 Ways To Romance Your Wife
Here are a few things that you can do. You will be surprised that you are already doing most of them. And the ones that you aren’t, you may try them now because it is never too late to be romantic!
- Spend time with her. If she often complains about you being busy, then surprise her by taking out some time just for her. It could be a few hours or one whole day. Dedicate it to her, snooze your work, toss your mobile away and pay her your undivided attention. Look into her eyes, hold hands, or take walks together. This is all it takes to be romantic with your wife. The most successful couples prioritize a regular date night that happens no matter what.
Quick tip- Be vocal about your feelings. Husbands mostly believe, “She needs to feel my love, I don’t have to say it aloud.” While this may be true, she would want you to occasionally reassure her just as she does to you. So, share experiences of being with her, discuss interests, tell her how her presence is making your life beautiful, and make her feel special with close talks.
- Take the lead: As long as you have considered what she appreciates, loves and desires, lead them where they want to go. To learn about her goals, it is important to communicate often and practice getting on the same page. Use this skill when planning dates and you will be on the right track.
- Cook her favorite dinner. As she comes home from work, tired and worried about preparing the dinner, surprise her by keeping it all ready with promptness. Let her have a relaxing shower, while you set the table. Put some candles and flowers to enhance the romantic effect of an intimate dinner. But make sure you are cleaning up the kitchen too.
Quick tip- Ask her to dress up the way you like. Women love to dress up and look pretty, especially for their husbands. You can add romance to it by asking her to get ready the way you want. Either surprise her with a new dress or search her closet and pick something of your choice. When she is done, we are sure you cannot take your eyes off her.
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- Keep in touch with her throughout the day. This is a simple yet romantic way to express your love. You could be at work or away on a business trip. Send random texts and, if possible, make a call to tell her that you are thinking of her.
- Hold her in public. Even if you are not used to the public display of romance, if she likes it, try it. Embrace her and share a special moment together. You will surely see a broad smile on her face when you pull her close while clicking a picture. These small gestures will be recorded as a romance in her mind.
- Take her shopping. Have you been always making excuses to avoid shopping with your wife? Well, then take her out for shopping if you want to romance her. She could take you to ten shops, and try several dresses but pay attention and help her buy gifts she likes.
- Plan a short trip, just the two of you. If your wife is getting overwhelmed with family responsibilities and work stress, then send the kids to their grandparents’ place or hire a babysitter and take her on an outing. It could be to the beach or a picnic in the woods, make the necessary arrangements and enjoy the tranquility of nature.
- Cuddle with her. Did you know hugging and cuddling trigger the release of oxytocin? This hormone helps in reducing stress and also keeps the person happy. So, cuddling with your wife will not only brew romance but also keep you both happy.
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- Slip romantic lines in her purse. Imagine your wife opens her purse and finds a naughty note from you; she will blush deep no matter where she is, and will surely treasure this moment.
- Know her idea of physical intimacy. When it comes to physical intimacy, women are usually not open about their needs. Make her feel comfortable and ask her. It could be a girly fantasy straight out of a Nicholas Sparks novel, but be sincere and fulfill it.
- Share a light moment. A couple who laughs together stays together. If her favorite standup comedian is in town, book tickets for the show. Or you can cuddle up and watch a comedy movie together. You may do anything that is worth a laugh.
- Recognize her efforts. Your wife is the backbone of the family. She takes care of every minute thing at home and also supports you financially. So, recognize her efforts and thank her for everything she does day in and day out. Words like “Thank you’’ or “I do not know what to do without you,” will make her feel important and loved. If you are wondering how to show your wife you love her, remember, a simple compliment is one of the top ways.
- Write a love letter. Show her your feelings by pouring all your kind words and write her a love letter. You need not write poems or write something fancy. Just put down your honest feelings and when she reads it, she will feel like the luckiest person on earth. Evoking such emotions is what keeps the romance alive in a relationship.
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- Dance with her. If you both love to dance, then take her to a pub and dance your heart out. But if she is shy, then play your favorite track and do some dance at home. The point here is to be close to her, look into her eyes and brew some romance.
Quick tip- Do some girly stuff with her. You may be a macho man to the world, but this is how to be a good husband to your wife. For your wife, you are her best friend, and what do best friends do? They do stuff together; it could be wearing matching outfits or uploading pictures on social media, or doing something that she enjoys doing.
- Plan a staycation: For your next anniversary or her birthday, book a room in a hotel or resort (a resort by the sea is the best), and spend a day or two there. Order room service, sleep when you please, wake up when you want to with no alarms or running around.
- Keep in ‘touch’ with her. While she is busy in the kitchen or working on her computer, hug from behind and plant a kiss on her cheek; she will be thrilled. Randomly touching her will keep up those romantic vibes alive and active.
- Take care of yourself. Stay fit and attractive. Exercise regularly, stay in shape and dress up for your wife. This will inspire her to be fit and attractive too.
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- Play and tease each other. When you both are at home, initiate a hide-and-seek game or just run and catch each other. Such romantic moments help build a friendship. Forget all worries and have fun like kids.
- Give her a massage. Turn the bedroom into a spa, light some aromatic candles, play soft music, and keep the essential oils ready. When she is done for the day and ready to sleep, give her a soothing massage. This will make her feel like heaven.
- Revisit your first date. Go to the same coffee shop or visit that spot where you both met for the first time. To celebrate it in a more romantic way, ask your wife to wear the same or similar outfit she wore that day. Relive those memories which marked the start of a beautiful journey.
- Do small things for her. Small things make a big impact. Do random favors such as picking her up from the office, doing her laundry, bringing home her favorite snacks, etc. Such actions show that you are caring and loving towards her.
- Make her fantasy real. It could be a diamond set, a trek to the nearby hill, a candle-lit dinner on the beach or a visit to the Eiffel Tower. Depending on your budget, plan to make her fantasy come true.
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- Encourage her to go out with her friends. Just like you, she too needs some time away from kids and responsibilities. Offer to look after the kids and do the chores, so that she can plan an outing or take strolls with her friends.
- Give her a nickname. What can be more romantic than making your wife blush with a cute nickname? This might sound silly but it works for sure. Give her a nickname that suits her personality. Call her with that name and use it in the messages too. If it is a naughty one, then reserve it for your private moments.
- Decorate her gifts. You might have given several gifts to your wife on her birthdays or anniversaries. But have you tried packaging them beautifully? Try it this time. Watch some DIY videos, and pack the gift yourself so well that your wife should understand and appreciate the effort you put in it.
- Tell her she is beautiful. We saved the best to the last. Nothing is more romantic to your wife than hearing those magical words from you. She can spend hours getting ready for you, and all that gets justified when you tell her, “You look beautiful today.” So, do not be so uptight; tell her how beautiful she is.
Why Is It Important For You To Romance Your Wife?
When you put effort into romantic gestures, it is not just for a quick smile, it helps in building a strong foundation of love, trust, and happiness for both. Here are a few reasons why you should romance more with your wife.
- Expressing love and gratitude: Romantic gestures are a language of affection, reaffirming the husband’s deep love and devotion to his wife, ensuring she feels treasured and appreciated.
- Deepening emotional bonds: Small acts of love nurture a profound emotional connection, fortifying the bond between spouses.
- Sustaining the passion: Regular romantic gestures kindle and sustain the passion in the relationship, infusing it with excitement and novelty and making each day a new adventure.
- Building trust and emotional security: A consistent display of romantic efforts nurtures trust and a sense of emotional security.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. What are some romantic things I can say to my wife?
Some romantic things you can say to your wife may include how much you love her, complimenting her looks and appearance, complimenting her dressings and hair, and telling her how much she means to you.
2. What romantic activities can I do with my wife?
You can do various activities with your wife, including going to a couple’s massage or spa, a weekend trip, taking a dance class together, a romantic drive, a bubble bath at home, and watching a romantic movie together. Understand how to flirt with your wife with these simple gestures.
3. What are some ways to make my wife feel valued and respected?
Helping her with house chores, looking after children, supporting her in her career, showing appreciation and love, taking an interest in her hobbies, and listening to her advice and opinions are some ways to make your wife feel valued and respected.
4. How can I ensure my wife knows I’m thinking of her?
If you’re away and thinking of your wife, sending her an immediate text, surprising her by sending her flowers or her favorite snacks, or simply calling her can let her know you’re thinking of her and will also bring a smile to her face.
5. How can I make my wife feel more secure in our relationship?
Open communication, listening to her opinions, respecting her feelings and work, and keeping your promises are some effective ways to make your wife feel more secure in a relationship.
6. How can I adjust romantic gestures to the individual preference of my wife?
Knowing your wife’s love language and preferences may help you create more meaningful romantic gestures. Whether it’s helping with tasks, giving gifts, spending quality time together, offering kind words, or showing affection, identify what she values most and ensure your gestures are in tune with it.
It is common for romance to fade away between partners. But as long as you keep trying, there is always a chance for it to come back and remind you of the affection between you two. If you have been looking for ways to romance your wife, we recommend these tips. A few of them are just simple ones that need minimal effort. While the others might seem old-fashioned and cheesy, trust us, they would help you find your lost charm. Pick a way that you think your partner would love the most and is comfortable with. Just a couple of these basic methods would have her swooning.
Infographic: Small Gestures Capable Of Keeping The Spark Alive
It doesn’t take much to make your wife feel constantly loved in a married relationship. The romance tends to fade as the years pass and partners need to make greater efforts to keep their relationship going. However, it is the small things and gestures in everyday life that keep the love in the air and happiness in the hearts. The infographic below describes the same. Illustration: Momjunction Design Team
Illustration: Ways To Romance Your Wife
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