How To Write A Wedding Letter To Your Partner: 10 Simple Tips

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A wedding is a special occasion in a person’s life when you vow to spend the rest of your life with your partner. If you are to get married soon, you already know the marriage jitters and might want to pen wedding letters to your partner, letting them know what you are going through. It’s natural for the bride and bridegroom to go through a mix of emotions before the big day. The nervous excitement, the endless preparations, and meeting countless people in the run-up to the nuptials can be quite overwhelming. Hence, sharing your experiences, anxieties, expectations, insecurities, and everything else with your to-be spouse can make things easier for you and increase your bond. Let them know how excited you are to start the new innings of life with them and how grateful you are to find your love of life. We have combined several letters in this post to take inspiration from and write a wedding letter to your significant other.

10 Tips For Writing Wedding Letters

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Before you start putting your feelings on paper, have a look at some tips to write a good wedding letter.

1. Plan your letter

It can be an impossible task to gather your thoughts and write them clearly in a letter on the same day as your wedding. So, plan the contents of your letter days or weeks before the big celebration. Make notes of points you want to write in your letter on paper or your phone. Take your time to write all that you wish to convey to your partner. This way, you will not miss out on anything and mention all that you want to.

2. Keep it concise

The purpose of a wedding letter is to express love for your partner, and it is easy to get emotional and fill page after page with your inner feelings. However, they may need more time to read a long letter, so it is best you keep it concise, mentioning only those points that will make your wedding day more special for your partner.

3. Mention positive points only

Your relationship may have seen its share of ups and downs, but on your wedding day, you share only the happy parts of it. You can leave the negative experiences behind for one day and remind your partner of all the happy times you spent with each other. Right from the day you met each other to the day the invitations went out, put in the points that made you happy.

4. Keep it natural

Do not try to write funny lines if you are not a humorous person or get too philosophical when you do not feel it from within. Your partner will spot it easily. Instead, be genuine and write what comes to you naturally. If you seem to be struggling with the opening, use a relationship quote or a quote about love that reflects how you feel about your partner and continue with what you want to say.

Now let’s have a look at the points you can mention in the letter.

Quick tip

In your wedding letter to the love of your life, write about their qualities and accomplishments and how they inspire you to always do better in life.

5. Mention your reasons for saying ‘yes’

One of the most important points you should not miss mentioning in the letter is why you marry your partner. Remember all the romantic gestures and words. Tell them how excited you are to share your life with them. Mention how you feel confident that you have found a great partner in them, and you cannot wait to have a wonderful life with them by your side.

6. Express your hopes for a happy wedding

It takes months of planning and coordination to have a wedding procession go smoothly. It is, after all, the union of two families. And it is natural for you and your partner to feel anxious about the wedding preparations. Tell your partner how you wish everything goes by the plans and that you are looking forward to your first dance as Mr and Mrs.

7. Recall how it all started

You can take a walk down memory lane and recall how you first met each other and your first impressions. Write how the relationship has changed you and your partner and how far you have come since you met for the first time. Keep it short, sweet, and interesting. It is okay if you get a little emotional on this one.

8. Add what you like about them

In your wedding letter, you can write what you like about your partner. In a line or two, mention the moment you realized that they were ‘the one’ for you. You can also add instances or memories of special moments when you felt happy and overwhelmed by something they did for you, but you could never say it directly.

9. Tell them your dreams for the future

By committing to them, you are signing up for a life that you envision with them. Write to your partner about the kind of couple you think you will make. Let them know how you see yourself as a couple living happily ever after. Tell them how you want to share certain experiences with them, such as traveling to a new place, doing a joint activity, or coming home every day to them.

10. Make a promise

You can conclude your letter with a promise that is not a part of your wedding vows. This promise can be something trivial. For instance, if you have the habit of leaving a bottle open after you have had water from it, then promise your partner that henceforth you will ensure that you close the bottle tightly each time you have water from it. Or anything that could share a good laugh.

Wedding letters are a treasure of a lifetime. You may want to re-read the letter every once in a while, so write them beautifully and with great love. Allison and her husband wrote each other letters on their wedding day. Reminiscing about the beautiful day, she says, “The love letters were one of my absolute favorite memories from our wedding! I know that sounds kind of crazy, but at the end of the day, the fact that I can go back and look at our letters and read about where each other’s thoughts were on that day just makes it that much more special (i).”

Letter To The Bride On The Wedding Day

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The pretty princess is soon going to be the queen of your castle. Here are some examples of wedding letters you can write to make her feel special and happy on your wedding day.

1. Dear [Name],

I have never been more confident in life than I am now. Today, I make the world’s most beautiful woman my wife, and I know you are the perfect life partner for me. The very first moment I laid my eyes on you, I knew we were meant to be together. Since then, every single moment that we spent together reinforced my belief in ‘us.’

If I get to live my life again, I would only like to relive the part where we first met at your cousin’s birthday. My heart never pounded as hard before as it did that day seeing you in that blue dress. I consider myself lucky that you agreed to share your life with me. I promise to never hurt you and always be with you through everything that life offers us.

Forgive me if I have forgotten certain etiquettes in delivering this letter to you. I wanted you to know that I love you and always will.

Your husband-to-be,

[Name]

2. Dear [Name]

I did not believe in love at first sight until my eyes accidentally met yours in our school canteen. I started looking forward to lunch breaks only to be able to see you every day. I never dared to talk to you back then, but here I am today, ready to make you my beloved wife. You are a dream come true for me. You are the answer to my prayers for a wonderful life partner.

I cannot promise the world to you, but I certainly can promise to keep loving you with all my heart. Thank you for coming into my life and filling it with beautiful colors and your unique scent. You do not know what you mean to me. I love you with all my heart and hope to be the best husband ever.I am looking forward to the honeymoon and traveling with you together forever.

Your love,

[Name]

3. My to-be wife,

Of all the promotions I have sought in life, the one where I go from Mr. Boyfriend to Mr. Husband is my most awaited one. In a few hours, we will be tied together in matrimony for a lifetime, and I cannot tell you how excited I am to take up your spouse’s role.

But before you say ‘I do,’ I want you to know that I may not be the best boyfriend or husband, but I can be the one who loves you the most in the world. I cannot promise that we will never fight, but I can promise to kiss and make up with you after every fight. Baby, you mean the world to me, and I want to make you the happiest wife ever.

Your love,

[Name]

4. My dear [Name],

First off, I can bet my life that you are going to be the most beautiful bride today. And I will be the luckiest guy on the planet to be able to hold your hand. After tonight, I won’t need the sun anymore because I have your smile to brighten my day. You are one of the best gifts God has given me and I will cherish you with all my heart.

I love how independent and strong you are but try to lean on me sometimes too. I want to be your knight in shining armor, so give me a chance to save your day the way you have saved mine so many times. I promise not to disappoint you.

Yours truly for now and forever,

[Name]

Point to consider

Take your time before you start writing the wedding letter. Don’t write the letter in a rush. Take hours, days, or weeks to craft a letter that will melt your partner’s heart.

5. My sweet [Name],

There are no words to describe how happy I feel right now. I never thought that luck would smile upon me and bless me with an angel like you. My life was leading nowhere before you stepped in and gave it a new direction. You gave meaning to my life, and I cannot thank you enough for being who you are and accepting me the way I am.

There is not a single thing I would like to change about you, and promise me that you will be the way you are. I love it when you snort uncontrollably while laughing, and I promise to make you laugh so I can hear you snort more. I cannot believe that we will be opening our wedding presents together and laughing together and cooking together. We are one now. You complete me, my love.

Cheers to a lifetime together!

Your husband-to-be in a few hours,

[Name]

6. Hey Darling,

I’ve been thinking a lot about us and all the moments we’ve shared since those college days. Remember how we used to stroll around the campus, chatting and laughing without care? It feels like it was just yesterday, and we had no idea what was coming next.

My love for you has just kept getting stronger. It’s in all those quiet times we’ve had, every challenge we’ve faced together, and how you’ve shown me what it means to have someone by your side. Every day with you is like finding something new and precious.

We’re about to start this new chapter, and I’m pumped for it. I can’t wait to see what’s ahead for us, to build our place together, and keep this fantastic ride going with you. I’m so thankful for having you and your love—it’s so deep and genuine.

Thanks for being the amazing person you are—kind, strong, and always there for me. I’m super excited to get married, keep sharing laughs and dreams, and love you more every day. Let’s make those promises to each other and look forward to all the adventures and joy.

All my love,
[Your Name]

7. Dearest [Name],

Life is so unpredictable! Who knew that the lazy lad working at his uncle’s convenience store would catch the eye of a straight-A student who would go on a date with him and then change his life. Thank you for meeting me at the right time. I cannot even imagine where I would be today had you not decided to ask me out and change my life.

Whatever I am today is because of you. I got out of the convenience store and went to college only to impress you. I worked hard, got a job and a house only to make you happy. My life is on the right track only because of you. You never asked for a single thing from me, but today, I wish to hand over my entire life to you. I am nothing without you.

Yours now and forever,

[Name]

8. Sweetheart [Name],

Feels like I have waited my entire life to see you as my bride. And now that the day has arrived, I feel nervous. Not because of the wedding ceremony but because I’m worried that you might come to your senses and refuse to marry a weirdo like me. I still remember the feeling of exhilaration when you accepted my proposal. You made me the happiest man that day.

And today, I will become the luckiest man to marry the best wife anyone can ask for. I want to tell you that from today you are allowed to try all the pranks you enjoy playing on me because I will take instant revenge with hugs and kisses. So, be ready to pay the price for fooling me.

The one who loves you,

[Name]

9. Beloved [Name],

Writing this letter wearing the grooms’ attire feels so unreal. I am afraid that my alarm will buzz any moment and I will be awoken from this beautiful dream. I won’t hide the fact that I am extremely nervous to set out on this new journey but when I think of my to-be companion, the road seems like a bed of roses.

From today, no journey will be lonely as I am tying the knot with my partner in crime. Being with you has made my life more meaningful. I may be bad at keeping promises. But today, I will keep the promise I made while holding your hand.

Your partner for life,

[Name]

10. My butterfly [Name],

Everyone says ‘today is the most important day for you.’ But I don’t agree. Most important was the day we first met. Most important was the day we first confessed our feelings for each other. Most important was the day we realized we are meant for each other. Marriage is just a proclamation of what we already know in our hearts.

But to make this day truly special, let me confess something to you.

Confession 1: I gave you the nickname ‘butterfly’ not because you are cute (that you are) but because the first time I saw you, you were doing the butterfly stroke in the pool.

Confession 2: I did not need coaching for front crawl. I asked for your guidance only to talk to you.

Your only flower for life,

[Name]

11. Sweetie [Name],

I was afraid of marriages because someone told me that after some time married couples start looking like one another. But since I’m marrying the most gorgeous woman on this planet, I don’t mind adopting your good-looks. I hope this deal is limited only to looks and I do not end up becoming a cleanliness freak.

On a serious note, I love every little thing about you. So, even if I do become like you I know life will only become better for me. That’s the perk of marrying an amazing woman like you. Let’s make life beautiful together, my love.

Your lifelong admirer,

[Name]

12. My lovely [Name],

I know you hated me for teasing you in school. I was an idiot to think it was the only way to catch the attention of the most intelligent girl in the class. But look where it got us today. I may not be sure of many things in life, but I am more than sure of spending the rest of my life with you.

I want to tell you that you are the most beautiful person I have ever met and I’m not sure what I did in the past to have you in my life. But now that we will be tied in holy matrimony, I promise to try my best to be the perfect partner for you.

Yours one and only,

[Name]

13. Dear [Name],

You entered my life when life seemed dull and monotonous. You gave me a reason to live and today you are giving me a reason to be happy for life. You have filled my blank canvas of life with a myriad of colors. I cannot thank you enough for coming into my life.

But today, I can promise to fill your life with all the happiness you deserve. You are a wonderful woman with the purest heart and I want you to always be happy. I know you must have had many suitors who were much better than me. But you chose me to be your partner and I will never do anything that will make you regret your decision.

Your loving partner,

[Name]

14. My Beloved [Name],

As I sit down to write this letter, my heart is filled with a flood of emotions. From the first time our eyes met to the countless memories we’ve created together, every moment has been priceless. You are the rhythm to my song, the guiding light in my darkest hours, and the beating of my heart.Tomorrow, as we pledge our love to each other in front of our closest family and friends, I want you to know that I am committing my soul to yours for all eternity. Together, we will write our own love story, filled with passion, laughter, and endless adventure. I promise to adore you, honor you, and support you through every twist and turn that life may bring. You are my everything, my forever, and I cannot wait to begin this new chapter of our lives together.With all my love and devotion,[Name]

15. My pretty [Name],

Life is like a movie that has its happy and sad moments. If you allow me to be the supporting actor in your life, I promise to never leave your side. I will stand by you through thick and thin and lend you my shoulder to rest when you feel low.

Before you vow to become mine forever, know that I will always strive to keep you happy and safe. I will be committed to our family and will give you the best life possible.

Your imperfect man,

[Name]

16. My dearest [Name],

Did you know you rub your nose when you lie and your eyes crinkle when you smile? Everything about you, my love, is adorable and I cannot help but fall in love with you over and over again.

I can’t wait to have you as my wife as I will find more reasons to celebrate my life with you. When I see you as my bride, I know I will have to hold on to my heart, or it will explode with immense joy. I love you with all my heart, and I strive to be the man you deserve.

Will always love you,

[Name]

17. My love [Name],

I can’t tell you how thrilled I am to start a new life with you. It feels like yesterday when you berated me for jumping the line at the shopping store. I remember going blank as I had never seen someone as stunning as you before. At that moment, I thought to myself, I will mend my ways and never jump a line again if I were to have someone like you in my life.

Ten years later, here we are ready to get married. Dreams do come true. Happy wedding day, my precious.

Yours lovingly,

[Name]

18. My soulmate [Name],

Isn’t it surprising that two people who could never get along are getting married? When I met you, I knew how much you hated me and so I also learnt to pretend to hate you when in reality I was totally smitten by you. Thank you for having a big heart and giving me a chance to be a part of your life.

Let’s take our life forward in a new direction together. I know with you by my side, life’s challenges will be fun, and even hell can be enjoyable. I promise to not laugh when I see you at the altar if you promise to not make a face through the veil. Let’s do this, baby.

Your laughing partner,

[Name]

Letters To The Groom On The Wedding Day

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Soon be tied in the nuptial bond with your charming prince, here are some sample wedding letters that you can write to the love of your life.

19. Dear [Name],

Nine years ago, I never realized that the guy in the blue Camaro asking me for directions to his aunt’s house would end up altering the direction of my life. I would never have thought that a lost teenager would transform into the hardworking, strong, and loving man you are today.

Your smile still makes my heart flutter, and my name on your lips makes my heart skip a beat. Thank you for accepting me as your partner. Before I pledge to love you till my last breath at the altar, I promise to remember to unplug the phone charger every night before sleeping. So, do not worry you are in safe hands for the rest of your life.

Let’s drive our way through a wonderful life together.

Your wife in a few hours,

[Name]

20. Dearest hubby-to-be [Name],

Our day has finally arrived, baby! We will be man and wife soon. But before we get married, I want to tell you how happy I am to be walking down the altar to you. When I first met you, I never imagined that you would become the ‘better half’ of me. And here I am today, in the world’s best bridal gown, thanking the Gods above for bringing the world’s best man into my life.

You have seen me through the best and worst phases of life and have always been my pillar of strength and reason to smile. It is my turn to promise you my love and loyalty for this lifetime, and I am more than happy to do so. I hope we have the most memorable wedding because I know we will be the most awesome couple ever.

Love,

Your to-be-wife in a while

[Name]

21. Dearest [Name]

With every passing second, I come closer to becoming yours forever. Three years ago, when you first held my hand and helped me cross the busy road, I had no idea one day you’d promise to hold my hand forever. Your caring nature bowled me over, and I can’t wait to be yours soon.

Today, in front of the Almighty, our friends, and families, we will promise to stay by each other’s side for the rest of our life. But I want to make a promise right now to always hold your hand in every phase of life.

I love you,

[Name]

22. Dear [Name]

Time flies! It feels like yesterday that you slipped into my DM on Instagram asking if we could be friends. Little did I know that slowly you would slip into my heart too. Your entry in my life felt like a drop of rain on parched land. Life has become so beautiful since I met you, and I hope it continues to be so after we are together as hubby and wifey.

Later, when we stand together before the Almighty, I want you to hold my hand tightly, so I know it is not a dream and that we are really getting married. Everything is happening so fast that I cannot believe I am marrying the man of my dreams. Today, I promise never to let go of your hand no matter what life throws our way. I will be by your side through it all.

Let’s embark on the happiest journey called ‘married life.’ Uncork the champagne. It is time to celebrate!

Love you,

[Name]

23. My munchkin [Name]

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Today is the day to be written in golden letters in our story. I have always cared for you, and from today, I will officially be in charge of ensuring that you never neglect yourself. I promise to support you always, the way you have supported me. I will walk beside you in every endeavor of yours and be your biggest cheerleader the way you have always been mine.

Let’s share our days and nights to build a strong and beautiful life together. I know now for sure that I would walk down the altar to no one but you. You are the best part of my life, and it is an honor for me to be your wife soon.

Cheers to new beginnings, my love.

[Name]

24. Dearest [Name]

Right now, you may be a door away, but I can feel your heartbeat as hard as mine. I know how anxious you must be for our big day because I think the same way, my darling. In the last few years, we have shared so many of our firsts together, and by sealing our lifelong partnership today, we will be able to share our firsts, seconds, and thirds.

I cannot wait to see what life has in store for us. I know I will love you more each day because you are the best thing to have ever happened to me.
See you at the altar.
[Name]

25. My darling [Name],

My love, my life. I cannot believe our marriage day has finally arrived. It was a long journey from being classmates to friends to lovers and now spouses. But it has been the most beautiful journey of my life. When I said ‘yes’ to your proposal, the only thing on my mind was that I wanted to be happy all my life, and for me, happiness is being with you.

You made me believe in true love and showed me the meaning of ‘soulmates.’ Loving you is like breathing for me, natural and necessary. As I look at my bridesmaids and your groomsmen, I cannot believe my luck. I love you from the core of my heart and cannot wait to say ‘I do’ to the man who makes me feel happy and content in life.

Yours lovingly,

[Name]

26. My love [Name],

When you came to my rescue that fateful evening, I thought to myself, how lucky is the girl who is with a wonderful guy like you. Little did I know that I would one day be the lucky one to call you ‘my man.’ Destiny brought us together, but our love and trust will keep us together forever.

As we start a new chapter to our story today, I can imagine how wonderful our journey will be. I am looking forward to traveling with you and creating lots of memories. I want to live in our dream house together with our future babies and pets. Let’s create a world of our own.

Yours truly,

[Name]

27. My precious [Name]

Life is so unpredictable. Who knew my innocent ‘hello’ at the airport would one day lead me on my way to say ‘I do’ to you. I remember thinking how polite and chivalrous you are. I hope you continue to be the same forever because I love you the way you are.

My heart is filled with excitement as I think about the kind of life we might create for ourselves. I promise to always love and support you always. Let’s have a memorable wedding ceremony, my love. We can do this together.

Your crazy lover girl,

[Name]

28. My aquaman,

I can’t believe we are finally getting married today. When I first saw you through my hazy swimming goggles, I felt you were the most attractive man alive. That day, you did not just dive into the pool but also into my heart.

Today, as we set out on a new journey called marriage, I promise to never leave you behind. I’m not sure what kind of parents we will become but I’m sure our children will be great divers.
Before I conclude, I have some to share with you.

Confession 1: Remember the first time we met at the pool? I could feel your eyes on me so I did my best butterfly stroke to impress you.

Confession 2: Thank you for seeking my help with the front crawl even though I knew you didn’t need it. I was happy with the generous attention you gave me.

Yours only,

[Name]

29. To My Better Half,

My heart is brimming with joy and gratitude while writing this letter to you on this special day. It is not a normal day, it’s the day we go from friends and fiance to husband and wife. I have always found changes scary, but the one happening today has me thrilled as I get to embark on a long happy life with you by my side and me on yours.

I knew you were someone special, someone I wanted to hold on to since the day I met you in college. You have been a constant source of support and joy and every day spent with you has been delightful. Today, I am the happiest woman in the world because I get to call you my husband. And I can’t wait to make lifelong memories with you, darling.

30. Darling [Name],

It’s our special day today and words are not enough to express how I feel. I had never met a man more kind and affectionate as you and I’m sure there is no one like you in this world. I may be jittery right now, but I know this is going to be the best decision of my life.

When I imagine my life with you, my heart leaps with joy. I promise to make you the happiest husband. I will always support you because I have complete faith in you. Baby, you rock my world and I cannot wait to be called Mrs. [your partner’s surname].

Your love,

[Name]

31. My dear [Name],

Congratulations on your big day, honey. Today you will finally get married to the most beautiful and intelligent girl in the town. Honestly, I had no idea we’d come this far. I mean who willingly signs up for a lifetime of watching you leave the damp towel on the bed? But then, I realized I also get a lifetime supply of unconditional love, which is enough for me to survive.

Today, I promise to never let go of your hand and sleep with ear plugs on to ignore your snoring. I promise to laugh at your awful dad jokes and dance with you even with two left feet. Let’s do this baby. Let’s show the world how two opposites can have a great marriage.

Your dreamgirl,

[Name]

32. My sunshine [Name]

My life has not been the same ever since I met you. I now recall my life in two time spans: before meeting you and after meeting you. You are that important to me, baby. You mean the world to me. My life before you was on a different track. It was only after I met you did I realize that I was on the wrong track all this while.

Today I promise to be with you through the thick and thin, the pure and the evil, the highs and the lows. You my dear matter more than anything to me. I will continue to love you with all my heart and soul.

Lovingly yours,

[Name]

33. Dearest [Name],

The most important day in our life has arrived and I can’t stop being emotional. My dream of marrying the perfect man is going to become a reality and I feel incredibly blessed to have a partner like you. You are my best friend and my pillar of support.

Today, I promise to be by your side through ups and downs and cherish your companionship. Trust me, you have chosen an amazing woman to be your partner, and I have a lifetime to prove it to you.

The crazy woman you love,

[Name]

34. My dear [Name],

We are not the perfect humans, but we are perfect for each other. We have our differences, but we also know how to look out for each other. Your impossibly long and detailed messages may exhaust me but your inexhaustible affection keeps me afloat.

Loving you is so easy, my dear. I never even had to try; it comes as naturally as breathing for me. Today, I am more than convinced that I am going to be spending the rest of my life writing, rephrasing, proofreading, and sending responses to you. And I am more than willing to do it for you, and only you.

Your sloth bear,

[Name]

Illustration: Sample Wedding Letters To Write Your Partner

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Infographic: Why Write A Wedding Letter?

In today’s age of instant messaging, a wedding letter from your husband or wife-to-be can be an emotional start to a strong bond. While most are familiar with traditional wedding vows, a letter also has charm. So if your special day is coming, explore why you must include wedding letters in your pre-wedding preparations.

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A wedding letter needs to be hearfelt and authentic. Even if you know how you feel, you may not be able to put your feelings into words. Here are five tips to help you get started!

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