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Babies are the greatest source of joy in the world, and having a daughter is a unique and special experience. There are several reasons why having a baby girl is both exciting and fulfilling. Raising a girl is a journey filled with miracles, challenges, and unforgettable memories. It is a beautiful experience that fills our hearts with love and inspiration as we witness the grace, innocence, and wonder of our little one. From shopping for cute dresses and tiny shoes to setting up dollhouses, several joyful moments come with having a daughter. Keep reading to discover why having a daughter is so special and the wonderful moments you can share with your little princess.
Key Pointers
- Shopping for cute clothes, hair accessories, and dollhouses are among the amazing things parents can do with their little princess.
- Frilly clothes, especially those with frills at the bottom, are a popular choice for baby girls.
- Naming a baby girl is an exciting process for parents, offering a variety of cute and creative name options.
- Baby girls often become mini-me of their moms and mothers can connect better with their daughters through different stages of their lives.
- Diaper changes are easier with baby girls, as there are no stray squirts of pee to deal with.
Why Having A Baby Girl Is A Joyful Experience
There’s something remarkable about having a daughter. From the moment she arrives, she brings love, joy, and memorable moments. Here are a few reasons why having a daughter is truly delightful.
1. Shopping for those cute clothes
Being able to shop for those cute baby girl clothes is one of the first exciting things that comes to the minds of all women. And eventually get to take her shopping with you to buy those cute clothes.
- Imagine rows and rows of pink, red, peach, cream hued clothes.
- Imagine those never ending dresses with frills and laces and flowers and butterflies and bows and ribbons.
- From frocks to skirts to cute frilly shorts to all those adorable tiny dresses, when you have a baby girl, you have the chance to shop for the cutest things in the world!
Quick tip2. Shopping for those cute hair accessories
Once you are done buying those cute baby girl clothes, the next cutest thing is to shop for hair accessories for your baby girl.
- Hair accessories are pretty, and when you want to buy hair accessories for your baby girl, they epitomize cuteness.
- Imagine dressing up your baby girl in those cute headbands, hair ties, ribbons, bows, clips, and more.
- Add to the fact that you can even match your hair accessories with your baby girl.
Quick tip3. You can match her name to yours
As parents, we can empower our daughters with femininity, legacy, tradition, and a bright future filled with hope and pride.
Naming your baby is one of the first celebrations you will have once you bring your baby home.
- When you have a baby girl, you can always choose a name for your darling that will match your name.
- There are so many choices when it comes to selecting a name for a baby girl that you will be spoilt for choice.
- Not just a regular name, but you can also have some of the cutest names for your baby girl when you want to keep a pet name for your little darling.
4. Clothes with those frills at the bottom
Baby clothes for girls are in themselves very cute, but nothing beats the cuteness factor when the clothes you buy for your baby girl are adorned with frills.
- You will be amazed at how cute your baby girl will look when she wears those tiny leggings with the frills at the bottom.
- In fact, many women are known to have wanted to have babies only so that they can have a baby girl and shop for her clothes and accessories.
5. Your baby girl will be your mini me
When you have a baby girl, chances are she will likely become your mini-me, sharing your traits, habits, and even your little quirks!
- Most women want to have a baby girl, while some men want to have a son. As a woman, you have grown up as a little girl yourself.
- You would love to see your little girl live those moments of your growing up in front of your eyes.
- You will cherish the snuggles, bedtime stories, lullabies, and fairytales filling your days, and you’ll find joy in the small things such as flowers, dolls, tea parties, dress-up, and ballet.
Quick tip6. You will know all her growing up feelings
As a woman who grew up as a little girl, you will connect more with your little girl through her growing-up years. Also, celebrate her important life milestones, such as the start of womanhood when she begins her menstrual cycle.
- As your little girl grows up to her years of puberty, adolescence, teen and young adulthood, you will connect more with her.
- Even without your daughter telling you everything, you will know what her thoughts, fears, concerns, and aspirations may be.
- As a mother of a girl, you will be able to help her understand the various changes she will go through her life.
Laura Jean, a mother of three, writes about her experiences with her baby daughter. She says, “There’s totally such a thing as being a ‘Mama’s girl,’ and I’m eating it all up!! Seeing my little girl reach for me, and say, ‘Mama,’ in her squeaky baby voice melts my heart! She’s going through life, and I’ll be by her side to help her through it all! I’m also looking forward to building that special deep mommy-daughter relationship that occurs long after little girls leave the nest (i)!”
7. Diaper times with a baby girl are always easier
Agreed that diaper times are messy, but if you have a baby girl you have some solace since girls are generally easier to handle during diaper changes.
- When you change your baby girl’s diaper, rest assured you will not have to deal with stray squirts of pee.
- It will be easier for you to manage your baby girl’s pee and poopy times and hold them better in the diaper.
- Add to that the fact that once you pick up your baby girl in the middle of a diaper change, you don’t have to worry about any additional or accidental squirts here and there.
8. Your baby girl will dress up as you
Guess what one of the most fun parts about having a baby girl is? She will dress up like you! So get ready for some adorable mommy-daughter moments.
- Your baby girl will see your style and way of dressing every day, and even without realizing, they will inspire her choices.
- From as early on as a toddler, your baby girl will show her inclination to dress up like you.
- She will play with your scarves, try to get her tiny feet in your heels, wear your sunglasses and play with your jewelry. Every time she does this, not only will it make her look cuter than she already is, it will also make you proud to have a baby girl who looks up to you.
Point to consider9. Nail time will be fun time
Imagine sitting down and painting your nails, and imagine doing the same with your baby girl!—a fun and loving way to spend quality time together!
- Nail art will take an all new level when you involve your baby girl in the same.
- What could be more fun than painting those tiny fingernails on those tiny hands and legs?
- Once you have painted both you and your baby girl’s nails, click pictures together to capture this fun mom and daughter moment.
10. Your baby girl will be her daddy’s girl
Having a baby girl is a beautiful experience that brings so much joy, hope, and inspiration to families. It’s an opportunity for fatherhood and nurturing to shine, as fathers learn to bond and connect with their daughters in ways they never thought possible. You will obviously spoil your baby girl to bits, and one more person who will do it with equal joy will be daddy dear.
- Soon after birth and for some months after that, your baby girl will want no one but you.
- Once those initial months are over, your baby girl will start enjoying her time with her daddy.
- Your baby girl will turn into her daddy’s little girl and you might even feel a little pang of jealousy at the sudden love interest that develops.
Research findsFather and blogger Dinesh Bhalaji shares his joy of having a baby girl, emphasizing the unique strengths girls possess. He says, “Girls excel in communication, creativity, and empathy, which can lead to fulfilling careers and relationships. As a father, I am constantly impressed by my daughter’s resilience, compassion, and intelligence. I am proud to be raising a girl who has the potential to achieve anything she sets her mind to. All in all, the joys of raising a girl are many and varied. It’s an incredible journey that can bring a lifetime of happiness and fulfillment, and one that is not to be missed (ii).
11. Heart-to-heart conversations
When a baby girl grows older, she will likely lend a patient ear to understand your problems. If you get along, she might engage in deep, emotional discussions and offer solutions to tricky situations.
- Create a bond where you and your daughter can express your innermost feelings without fearing being judged. According to the United Nations International Children’s Emergency Fund (UNICEF), engaging in conversations with your baby early on shows that you value their emotions (3).
- Try to be there for her whenever she needs you. This will leave a lasting impact on her, and she will do the same for you.
- Do not feel shy about seeking help from your daughter. Sometimes, her fresh perspective can make your most complicated problems silly.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. How does having a baby girl change a man?
A father-daughter relationship is a bond of unconditional love, where a father becomes a daughter’s first hero and lifelong protector. Fathers with baby girls tend to open up more when talking about emotions as they become responsive to their daughter’s needs. They become more gentle and empathetic and begin to see the world from a female perspective. Furthermore, research suggests that fathers of daughters respond more positively to their daughters’ happy facial expressions, and having a daughter may even contribute to a father’s longevity (4) (5).
2. How do I prepare to have a baby girl?
If you’re expecting a baby girl, you can prepare by reading up on how to raise an assertive and confident young girl. Though society may impose rules regarding what kind of clothes and toys a girl should have, avoid instilling gender stereotypes from a young age. Instead, give your daughter the freedom to be involved in activities of her choice.
3. Can having a baby girl help reduce gender inequality?
By providing your baby girl with equal opportunities, teaching them to stand up for themselves, and empowering them, you can raise your daughter to take their position as an equal member of society. A study found that men with firstborn daughters are more likely to support gender-equity policies than those with firstborn sons (6).
4. What are some common myths about having a baby girl?
Common regional myths prevalent in some areas of the world include carrying the baby’s weight around the middle of the belly, craving sweets frequently, excessive morning sickness, decrease in skin glow, etc.
5. What are some important milestones for baby girls, and how can parents support their development?
Important milestones for a baby from the beginning of their life include being able to sit up, rolling over, trying to take their first steps, saying mama and dada, and responding to voices. Parents can encourage babies to reach their development milestones by talking to them, doing tummy time, telling them stories, showing them bright and colorful objects, and taking proper care of them.
6. How can parents raise confident and independent baby girls?
Encouraging assertiveness and competence, providing equal opportunities, not making assumptions about their strengths and weaknesses, letting them tread on their own path, not pressuring them about their future or life choice, and giving genuine advice and compliments can help you raise confident and independent girls who are self-aware and brave. Furthermore, open communication, addressing concerns, offering emotional support, and celebrating achievements can greatly boost their confidence and give them a sense of fulfillment (7).
7. Do daughters improve the family dynamics?
Daughters tend to be more expressive and communicative than sons, helping strengthen family bonds and emotional connections (8).
8. Do daughters have a stronger emotional connection with their mothers?
The mother-daughter bond evolves over time, but mothers often feel closer to their daughters, especially during the teenage years. Studies also indicate that a strong mother-daughter bond positively impacts the mother’s well-being (9).
If you are expecting a baby girl or already have one, we are sure that after reading this post on why having a baby girl is the greatest joy, you cannot wait to shower her with all the love and care. Shopping for those cute petite dresses and shoes that always make you go aww, playing with them, teaching them things, watching them grow up, and being their best friends are a few of many the perks of having a baby girl. Ensure to make the most out of this journey and enjoy every moment with your little princess.
Infographic: Reasons Having A Baby Girl Is A Joyous Experience
Whether it’s a boy or a girl, being a parent is a joyful experience. So irrespective of gender, a baby brings a sense of responsibility and stability into one’s life. So if you are looking forward to welcoming one, increase your anticipation by learning what’s ahead. This infographic celebrates the princesses and highlights the pleasures of having a baby girl. Illustration: Momjunction Design Team
Illustration: Why Having A Baby Girl Is The Greatest Joy In Your Life
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Personal Experience: Sources
MomJunction articles include first-hand experiences to provide you with better insights through real-life narratives. Here are the sources of personal accounts referenced in this article.
i. Reasons why I love having a baby girl!;https://www.coolmomandcollected.com/home/2ll5pt70rc88h8xdni2ua4q5gp2v0i
ii. Raising a Girl Child: Challenges and Joys of Fatherhood;
https://medium.com/@dinesh.bhalaji/raising-a-girl-child-challenges-and-joys-of-fatherhood-9adc082af4c3
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https://www.unicef.org/parenting/child-care/what-you-need-know-about-parent-child-attachment - Fathers’ Brains Respond Differently to Daughters Than Sons.
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